I didn't speak to him ...!?

@zhontine (127)
China
March 17, 2009 8:12pm CST
My husband has to work in daytime though,he always stay up,nearly everyday. The light and the noise he made by his hitting the keyboard make me sleepless. In the name of "earn money",but I never saw his being paid.Open the computer,he look late news first,one after one after one,that's seems endless.Then to the chat,at this time I've gone to bed.Maybe he works after my sleep. Last evening he sent me a short message"come back late,help yourself".Come back at 11:00 p.m,and said to me"are you dead?" without responding I pretended in deep sleep. If it's you,what could you do?Gave me suggestion,thx!
1 response
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
18 Mar 09
not talking will not solve anything. sit down and tell him as nicely as possible on how you are not liking what he is doing. an open communication is the best way to solve something like this in a married life. i am married for 6 years and we have a three year old son. so far sogood. i always tell my wife that i am not a fortune teller or pysch-kick taht can read her mind. she needs to communicate than just ignoring me. so so far so good. welcometo the wonderful world of mylot and goodluck with your married life.
@zhontine (127)
• China
19 Mar 09
told him not to,but didn't help yet