i lost my love but i still miss him,what should i do?

China
March 18, 2009 2:56am CST
2 month ago i lost my love,because he went to another city. we loved for 3 yars. i miss him and tomorrow is his brithday. i dont konw how to say happy brithday to him...
9 responses
@daliaj (5674)
• India
18 Mar 09
Did you both decide to beak up or not? I don't understand. Moving to a new city doesn't affect your love. Distance doens't matter in love, if you are really in love. So, don't worry. If you really love that person and he loves you, you can continue with the relationship. Also, if you have decided for a break up, there is no point in worring about that. Make up your mind for what you have decided. You still have time to think. If you love him, go aheaf to wish him .
@daliaj (5674)
• India
18 Mar 09
Distance is not a probelm for being in love. I live in India and I loved a person who is America, he is now my husband. We met online when we were in two differnt continents. So, don't worry dear. Distance is not a problem at all.
@subha12 (18441)
• India
19 Mar 09
look this is natural situation. You loved hin dearly and so feeling the void. But life goes on. Time is best healer.
@kissie34 (2294)
• Philippines
18 Mar 09
Well, you can do many things to make his birthday special.. You can call him exactly 12 midnight and sing him a birthday song! You can also chat with him with a cam and have a dinner together.. Make a poem or letter and send it in his email.. There are so many things you can do if you just want to do it... Don't worry you're not the only person in this world who is in a long distance relationship..Me too!! Me and my boyfriend are too far with each other but we can still make the important occasion into special.. Just be creative!
@kirei24 (251)
• Philippines
18 Mar 09
Did you have a formal break up? if so, try to forget him. Remember one sided love wont work. It will just cause you too much pain. But you could always befriend him. Try to forget him little by little. You cant really expect yourself to forget him in just a short time. Anyway 2 months is very short time, so i understand what you feel. Did you lost contact with him? why not call him up?
• Philippines
18 Mar 09
I think the best way you should do is to pray for his guidance...he is now far from you so i think you have to move on and focus on what is happening to your life now..if your really meant for each other GOD will make a way...I am just curious why did he left you?If i am on your case I will stop thinking of him because he leaves you so it means that he have no feelings for you anymore...
• Philippines
18 Mar 09
Tomorrow is the birthday of your former boyfriend. You've miss him for how many months and you dont even know how to say happy birthday to him. Now, if you have a phone number with him call him tonight at 12 midnigth just to surprise him on his birthday. I know he will be happy for that because you are the first who greet on his especial day. God bless you always and dont forget to thank God who is our Savior.
@donsky14 (5947)
• Philippines
18 Mar 09
So did you guys broke up when he went away? Why can't you keep in touch with him?
• China
18 Mar 09
Just consider him as one of your normal friends. If you miss him so much, you can go to see him.
@tjsally (287)
• China
18 Mar 09
It is really difficult for you to forget him, but you must forget. If you two couldn't live together, you must choose giving up. That's your wise choice. If a man really love you, i think he will not go or try to live with you, if not, the man is not worth loving. That's my opinion, I think a girl should find a man really love her, so she will get happiness. Good luck and happy mylotting.