do you mind what people think

@benny128 (3615)
March 18, 2009 4:27am CST
hey all, just getting your feelings, do you care what people think about you Or is it water of a ducks back and you dont let it worry you ?
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@katsalot1 (1618)
18 Mar 09
I don't take any notice of what people think of me unless they are someone I respect. If they are someone whose judgement means a lot to me, then I would be upset, and I would try to explain my reasoning to them, or if I thought they had a point, I would try and alter whatever they had said was wrong.
@benny128 (3615)
18 Mar 09
thanks kat for your reply I know what you mean, its similar to me a stranger I really dont mind what they think of me, but a family member or friend then I would
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@katsalot1 (1618)
29 Mar 09
Thanks for the best response!
@williamjisir (22819)
• China
7 Dec 09
Hello benny. It depends on which side they think about me. If it is negative, I think that I will mind about it. There is no problem if it is positive. I seldom think negatively about anyone. I think that it makes us happier to be and to think more of the positive sides.
• Philippines
8 Apr 09
don't care about it..i care about my liability and accountability to the people i teasured and cherished for life. People might not know the true of us...what they said about us or against are all just opinion they do not know what within us..so i don't want to waste my time spending time to fight with them..i leave them what they think about me..as long as i don't hurt my neighbor..
• China
18 Mar 09
Yes , I think when we become a person in the real world, we have to notify other's view about us ,such as our teacher ,our boss ,and even our new neighbor.Students should have a good point so that the teacher pay more attention on him , office clerk must have a good achievement so that the boss elevate him to a main director, it's more absurd that when people go to a new enviroment, they usually pretend to be a man who is warth, complaisant and helpful, actually they are not such a man. Real world gives everyone a fake mask. Along with the time passing , the real face is exhibited fully. Ihis is just the sense of the idiom "time reveals a person's heart",haha
• United States
25 Sep 09
honestly... i could care less what people think about me or who i am or how i behave. i know i'm a good person and that is really all that matters. if you don't like me then you don't need to be my friend or know me. but if you don't wish to knwo me then you are missing out on a lot! :) my family knows i'm special and i know it! that is really all that matters in the long run. if i cared what people thought then i would spend most of my life trying to please others and i just don't have time for that :-p