Can you give up your love?

@Krisneil (577)
Philippines
March 18, 2009 9:31am CST
How long can you hold on in a love that not works.? If you love someone, Can you give up on it or fight until your last breath? What are the reason that you really need to give up your love for someone?
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5 responses
@marty3888 (2355)
• Acme, Michigan
18 Mar 09
I don't pretend to be an expert oon love and I certainly don't know everyone's situation, but I think for a large part, people give up on love to quickly or easily. I really don't think that the divorce rate should be over 50%. I just wonder when people sya they are splitting because of irreconciable differences how many of those are really unable to work it out. I'm sure most of them are, but not all. For instance, if someone does something that's unforivable, go ahead and don't forgive him or her. But to forever end everything you've built for years? Anyway, to answer your question, I think if there is love, you should fight. The only good reason to give up is you can actually say you no longer love or care for that person.
@Krisneil (577)
• Philippines
20 Mar 09
Yeah they take the love for granted, if they dont have to gain then they give up.
@yenwie84 (1344)
• Malaysia
18 Mar 09
I would never give up my love if we are loving each other deeply unless I am the only one who is struggling hard to get his heart. There are always other factors to consider in a relationship,sometimes family's objection can ruin a relationship too. If I am in this case,I would fight until my last breath but with the condition both of us are trusting the love we are having.
@Krisneil (577)
• Philippines
20 Mar 09
I get your point, you let go because you love so much..
@winterose (39887)
• Canada
20 Mar 09
no I don't hold onto a love that is no longer there, I love myself too much to be humiliated by someone that does not love me. I am divorced I chose to get divorced, the reasons are personal and I will not share it here. What about you to make this a discussion you should be answering your own questions.
@rakesh284 (1472)
• India
18 Mar 09
Well I think no one would like to give up their love But if their are some situation then you might have to do it. I did it once because she never loved me but was good friend Her parent decided her marriage with my cousin. She respects her parents too much.
• India
19 Mar 09
I think that one should give-up when he thinks there is no more strenght to hpld on love espesially when the opposite person is not interested in you. But the should not just leave without trying once at the end. I too have similar situation as i love a girl who is my very good friend and studies with me in my class in college. I have been trying to impress her since 2 years and she used to ignore it by taking it as a joke or as a flirt. But i haven't stop trying and would not leave hope untill i feel helpless and week on my part. I many times wanna end this but my feelings towards her don't let me to it...