Do you read messages from your beloved over and over again?
By Curlann
@annierose (19228)
Philippines
March 18, 2009 6:20pm CST
Hi to all mylotters! Being in love is such a sweet feeling. And it becomes sweeter when our partners give us some things to show how they love us and what we really meant on their lives.I am in a relationship with more than a year and I can say that since me and my boyfriend are still friends, I keep all his messages for me.He keeps on sending me emails everyday. I do not delete all those emails weather its about good things that happened or bad things like our misunderstandings and arguments. Sometimes, when I am sad I keep reading those emails one by one. As of now, I have the feeling of loneliness because my boyfriend is on a business trip and they have a project on a remote areas in Panama.We cannot communicate much for a week. He find it really difficult to be online and chat with me. I am really missing him. So what I am doing, is reading again his messages for me again and again to somehow forget the feeling of loneliness. I not get tired of reading those lines from him.Do you also have same habit of re-reading messages from your beloved?Have a happy mylotting to everyone
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13 responses
@aisaellis22 (6445)
• United States
19 Mar 09
Hello annierose! We again did the same thing. I also save all the emails of my husband from the time we met 3 years ago and until now. I even have handwritten letters and cards to me.
When my husband went back to Florida, we can't communicate online because he will be staying in California for 2 days on his brother's house. He called me but one hour is not enough. I miss him so much that I always cried. What I did is just read all his emails to him and in that way, I will all remember how we met. I even laugh and cry while reading all his emails to me as if I'm crazy..hehehe
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If you haven't met yet and you already miss him, the feelings would be double when you finally meet him and he will go back home.[/i]
@aisaellis22 (6445)
• United States
20 Mar 09
It's ok annie..you really have to be strong especially you went into that kind of relationship..you don't have to rush things. I think he gave you time to grow as a person so that when you're there, whatever will happen, you know how to handle it with your own.
@annierose (19228)
• Philippines
20 Mar 09
yes, I agree with you. He is a mature person and sometimes I feel I'm still a kid in some ways.By the way, did you receive my private message? Thanks for responding.
@annierose (19228)
• Philippines
20 Mar 09
hi aisa,
It is his plan to visit me and my family first. He is wanting for us to get married after I got enough experience from teaching so I can also work also at their country as a teacher when I am already there.Honestly, my heart is fill with sadness because of his absence. In addition to that, there is also the worries because his trip is always dangerous.I do cry so many times because of missing him and we cannot chat for a week which is so hard for me. I just read his messages for me so to make myself smile once in a while.
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@annierose (19228)
• Philippines
20 Mar 09
hi coldmoon,
Yes, your response is very much different. Thanks for responding and Happy mylotting :)
@cream97 (29087)
• United States
19 Mar 09
Hi, annierose! I am guilty of this, truly!! I used to do it when I was not married, and now that I am married, I still do this! I love to save all of the messages and letters that my lover gives me. But, if we eventually break up for good, then I might just throw it away..
@annierose (19228)
• Philippines
20 Mar 09
hi cream,
Thanks for responding. I think so that majority of boys and girls do same when they broke up.
@staceys38 (14)
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20 Mar 09
Hi there annierose...i do exactly the same thing...my boyfriend works offshore for weeks at a time and i always find myself reading his messages..i think i know them off by heart now!!! Im glad its not just me...i thought i was a bit mad!!!
@annierose (19228)
• Philippines
20 Mar 09
hi staceys,
I am also surprise to learn that not just the women but also the men do same stuff in reading their lover's messages for them
@sambarwell (173)
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19 Mar 09
I tend to read once and keep safe, I have just burnt some old ones with personal things in them.
@annierose (19228)
• Philippines
20 Mar 09
hi sambarwell,
Thanks for responding.I appreciate it. Happy mylotting
@sonshinelife (16)
• United States
19 Mar 09
I definitely re-read things my husband has given me! I have kept everything from when we were dating and from now. I have it all in a box and every now and then, I take out all of the cards and letters and I read them. They make me smile. I always think it will be sweet if my daughters one day want to look through them and see the actual pieces of our love story. :)
@annierose (19228)
• Philippines
20 Mar 09
hi sonshinelife,
I remember my mom with your post.She really kept all the letter my dad gave to her. They are really so sweet.
@daliaj (5674)
• India
19 Mar 09
Yes, I do that. I read those type of messges over and over...i don't know many times. Sometimes, after many months if I am bored and alone, I will read those. I love doing so. It is nice to hear that there are also other people who does that. I read it ove for the happiness that makes in me. Have a nice day.
Have a nice day. @annierose (19228)
• Philippines
19 Mar 09
hi daliaj,
Thanks for responding. It is indeed a great feeling to come back to those messages and read it again and again. I also feel happiness when I am doing those things.
@delkar (1712)
• Romania
19 Mar 09
well, i really did that when i felt like i was so lonely, and when i had someone to love.Now, i can`t do that, because i really don`t love nobody, maybe i feel something for one girl that`s here on mylot, but i don`t know for sure ...it`s a lot of distance from my country to her`s. Anyway, sometimes when i really like a girl, and i see that she likes me too, i really read again even our discussions from the messenger, or the sms sent to each other, but that only to see better what was her intention. From some sms`s or some discussions on mess, i can really see a lot about a girl. How she is, what she want`s from me, etc..
@annierose (19228)
• Philippines
19 Mar 09
hi delkar,
Thanks for participating in our discussion here. I think that it is really loneliness which makes us to read all the messages our special someone gave to us.Anyway, I think there is nothing wrong loving a person which is somehow far. As long as you know in yourself that it is true love that you are feeling with her, it is good. Why not give a try?
@jshekhar (1562)
• India
19 Mar 09
Yes, it is really a sweet feeling when you read the old letters or e mails over and over again. All those emotions seem to be so fresh and I really enjoy it. Whatever be the present situation, you can use those when you want to feel happy. When you are sad, those letters freshen you up.
@annierose (19228)
• Philippines
20 Mar 09
hi jshekhar,
I agree with you. Thanks for participatingand adding me in your friends list.
and adding me in your friends list.
@jezblog (202)
• Philippines
19 Mar 09
hi annierose,
Yes, I usually does that. It's a kinda medication for me in some instances like when I am alone or when i felt lonely. Reading my love message cures. It actually drives away my feeling of loneliness. It gives me extra strength to continue something undone or yet to be done. Those messages of love really plays a vital role in my life. Aside from healing me in such situations, it also inspires me. I'll share one of her message: it says, "Babe, how are you? hope you're fine there. How i wish i have magic so that in just a single word I can have you right now. I really missed you. Be back soon okay. Always take care. -love." Reading it over and over again makes me smile. A smile for a wonderful day ahead.
Happy mylotting also :-)
@annierose (19228)
• Philippines
19 Mar 09
hi jezblog,
Your love is so sweet, I think . Hoping she will stay that way forever. Keep loving each other. Thanks for participating and happy mylotting
. Hoping she will stay that way forever. Keep loving each other. Thanks for participating and happy mylotting
@sagnik42 (3592)
• India
19 Mar 09
yes i do read the messages and letters of my beloved many times.i guess whenever i am lonely and whenever i miss her i read her messages.well it takes a long time though because there are just so much...i feel like she is with me and she is talking to me.boy i love her too much
@annierose (19228)
• Philippines
19 Mar 09
hi sagnik,
Oh, I'm not a boy
. Anyway, that is what my boyfriend also told me last time when he feels a little bit lonely.Thanks for participating and Happy mylotting
. Anyway, that is what my boyfriend also told me last time when he feels a little bit lonely.Thanks for participating and Happy mylotting
@annierose (19228)
• Philippines
20 Mar 09
hi mcdohl,
It is really true that when it comes to one we love, we never get tired
@bbtort (47)
• Singapore
19 Mar 09
I have kept many of my hubby's messages to me. At times when we have conflicts, I will read them one by one. I did not delete them as they serve the purpose of reminding me the things I have forgotten. Such as promises we made to each other. How we have went through hardships and obstacles to be together.
Now that we are married, I make a habit to re-read the messages so as not to take this relationship and my hubby for granted. At times, it is good to be reminded of the things we have written.
@annierose (19228)
• Philippines
19 Mar 09
hi bbtort,
I agree with everything you said here. Hoping you and your hubby will stay in love forever for the rest of your lives. Happy mylotting and thanks for participating
