Do your wear your wedding ring every day

@mjanne (251)
China
March 18, 2009 7:55pm CST
I wear my wedding ring every day,but not my husband. Because he feels uncomfortable with a ring around his finger. I found some of my friends also don't wear their wedding rings every day. They said it is not comfortable while working, afraid of losting, afraid of damaging or any other reasons. To me, I love to wear my ring every day, and you, my friend?
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@sizzle3000 (3036)
• United States
19 Mar 09
When my husband and I first got married we could not affort a ring. As time went on we got out of debt and then the ring came. I picked out a lovely ring and band set that was set in dimonds. The set is very lovely. I wore it every day for fifteen years of our marriage. I loved the set and even wore it to work when every one said I should not. I got the same lecture about wearing my rings to work. My mother used to tell me that I could damage the set or even have it stolen from my hand. As I like my ring set very much they would have to pry it from my hand because that is one ring I will not give us easy. About five years ago the arthritis in my hands made it hard for me to wear any rings at all. I am very sad and upset that I can not wear my wedding set. However, my husband is very understanding and he is not upset that I can not wear the rings. I will never get rid of them though. I think they will be lovely to give to my daughter when she wants to get married. Then about a year ago my husband broke his finger and now he can not wear his wedding band either. I am not up set over that either. Things happen that we can not control. The rings are in a box being kept safe and clean for the day my daughter may want them.
@mjanne (251)
• China
20 Mar 09
Hi, sizzle3000, your story is really moving. I agree that things happen taht we can not control. And I also can feel you like your ring so much, and so do I. I think no matter if you and your husband can wear it, the rings are in both of your heart, the love in both of your heart.
@ponganne (19)
• Australia
19 Mar 09
I wear my wedding ring everyday and I hardly take it off, even when I'm doing household chores. It may seem silly, but I like the constant feel of it, it's like I'm with my husband all the time. My husband wears his all the time too. Both of our rings are showing minor scratches,and we've been married for less than a year!
@Nhey16 (2518)
• Philippines
19 Mar 09
When I still have my ring, I always wear it, but for years now, I have lost it, coz I went to the comfort room and washed the dishes, and I didn't notice that I haven't worn it after that, I just realized only the next day, and when I looked for it, I never found it again. When my husband knew about it, he was disappointed and he didn't wear his ring, too coz he tells me, his ring's partner was lost. He just told me that we have to have new wedding rings, but til now we weren't able to put some attention to it, so we don't have our wedding rings til now.
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@maissj (111)
• Philippines
19 Mar 09
i do, i wear my ring everyday and i never and don't intend to take it off, unless someone wants to take a closer look on it, i think wearing my ring shows how proud i am to be married, not only the marriage itself but of the person i am married to. and even before we were married, my husband and i, wore silver rings as a couple. showing everyone else that were ALREADY TAKEN. SMILE!, MAI
• China
19 Mar 09
I have started to wear my wedding ring before I got married when my boyfriend sent the ring to me. I didn't request another ring when I went into the house of god. So for me, the wedding ring I have weared about 3+ years, though it is not good and expensive, but it is my lover. I also already have the habit to wear it, I will feel uncomfortable just like losing some thing without it.
@luvmysons (497)
• United States
19 Mar 09
Me and my husband always wear our wedding rings. I actually would be pretty mad if my husband didnt wear it. He has actually never taken it off for as long as we are married which is 6 years. I only take my ring off while I am sleeping. I do know alot of people especially men that dont wear it mainly because they work with there hands and dont want to damage the ring. But if they go out they will put there ring on
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@twoey68 (13627)
• United States
24 Mar 09
I wear mine every day but not on my finger. It is on a chain with my cross around my neck. My fingers tend to swell alot and so I'm worried about it getting stuck and having to be cut off. [b]~~AT PEACE WITHIN~~ **STAND STRONG IN YOUR BELIEFS**[/b]
@fwangaa (3057)
• China
27 Apr 09
my wife always wear the wedding ring. i don't have wedding ring, because my local don't usually the man wear ring. i never wear a ring. i hope someday i can buy a cheap one in shop.
• Canada
28 Mar 09
i wear my wedding ring everyday and so does my husband. It always reminds me of how lucky and blessed i feel to have such a wonderful husband
@Jennlk84 (4206)
• United States
19 Mar 09
I am not married yet, but I do have an engagement ring. I definitely wear it every day! I've had it for almost a year and a half now, so if I don't have it on I feel lost without it. Once we are married, my fiancee and I both plan on wearing our wedding bands at all times.
• China
20 Mar 09
dear mjanne,maybe your husband is right as a man. but I will wear wedding ring after marriage because it will remind me of my beloved wife as I note the ring.
• China
20 Mar 09
I'm not married now,I think I won't wear my wedding ring everyday,because I feel uncomfortable when doing anything.My colleagues don't wear it,too.Maybe It's lost,just a joke.
@larish (2191)
• Philippines
26 Jun 09
Yes, I wear it everyday. It reminds me of the commitment I have to my husband and to our future kids. If I have a bad hour and look at my ring, it motivates me to be more positive the rest of the day. In short, it gives me special energy to go on. I am just lucky because my husband also always wear his.