my friend's ex became my bf
By yoyo2323
@yoyo2323 (465)
China
March 19, 2009 2:17am CST
my friend and i once are best friends.but things has changed when i was in relationship with her ex! so we are not friends now!and after 10 month i break up with that guy..
things were so complicated!
do u have experence like me ?and if u were me what shall u do ?
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4 responses
@blink182m (182)
• Philippines
19 Mar 09
Theirs nothing wrong with it as long as there relationship has already finished.But if their relationship is still intact that would be a different kind of story.
@delkar (1712)
• Romania
19 Mar 09
well, you`re just like me. 
I was with a girl 3 months, and after that, we broke up. After 1 month, i was with her best friend. All it was good at the begining, but step by step, the first one didn`t want to talk anymore with her. I stayed with this one 2 years and after that we broke up. The first girl, the second one, and a 3th one, were best friends. Now, there are not anymore a trio. But that`s not because of me. All of them are in different city`s now, and can`t talk anymore like they were doing in the hight school. It`s hard for your friend to be friend with you again, because you were bad. I think that you should say "forgive me" to her, and you should be friends, but not like you were...that`s not possible anymore.
I was with a girl 3 months, and after that, we broke up. After 1 month, i was with her best friend. All it was good at the begining, but step by step, the first one didn`t want to talk anymore with her. I stayed with this one 2 years and after that we broke up. The first girl, the second one, and a 3th one, were best friends. Now, there are not anymore a trio. But that`s not because of me. All of them are in different city`s now, and can`t talk anymore like they were doing in the hight school. It`s hard for your friend to be friend with you again, because you were bad. I think that you should say "forgive me" to her, and you should be friends, but not like you were...that`s not possible anymore.
@tjdas83 (178)
• Malaysia
19 Mar 09
Nope, I never had an experience like that one. Most people think friendships come with territory. They say "never mess with your best friend's ex".
But what most fail to realize that we are HUMAN. Falling in love happens randomly and it has no barrier to whoever. But its hard to except at first, but as time goes by, it will be better.
Sorry this happened to you. If you want her back in your life, talk to her. If she really is your best friend, she'll come around. Maybe not right away, but the near future. If she still doesn't except you, then you need a new best friend I think.
