To be a careful person!!!

China
March 20, 2009 1:11am CST
I'm a careless girl.Something I have read several minutes ago,but after a while I can't remember it clearly.Perhaps I'm a forgetful guy.I think there will be something wrong to myself.I always do the same thing,and next time I will forget the error I have made last time.I can't remove my defect. Can you tell me how to be a careful person?
5 responses
@deepakde (156)
• India
25 Mar 09
hello, yes i am a careful person .because i dont think about my future. and just enjoy my life with my self.i am a very careless about my job and my responsibilty.
@ossified (93)
• Philippines
20 Mar 09
I forget a lot of things too (actually, mostly when im drunk) and yeah, it sucks a lot. What i can suggest is just stay healthy. Make sure you eat proper and drink lots of water, rest is very important so make sure you get close to 8hrs of sleep as much as possible. Also try not to do a lot of things, try to make sure you track down what you do and just try to keep your cool and slow down if you feel like it. Im sure you can overcome this!
@ankithat (87)
• India
20 Mar 09
hello there,.....i think we are both the same......even i forget a lot...and my mom keeps telling abut this..and to be careful, but i just can't help it sometimes.........i guess some of us are like that..:-) have a nice day.
@tjsally (287)
• China
20 Mar 09
Don't worry about this. I also encountered this kind of situation. Be ralex. Perhaps you could do some exercises of remembering or be single-hearted devotion to do the work. When you do a thing, you must certralize yourself into it, you could try. Good luck and happy mylotting.
@CJscott (4187)
• Portage La Prairie, Manitoba
20 Mar 09
Well, you could start by writing the more important stuff on sticky notes and attaching them to your computer...I use a pencil and write on the edge of my monitor. Also, before responding to a question, take a steady purposeful breath, can be aware of HOW you are going to say what you are going to say. And then there is the focusing to retain information, this is more difficult and takes practice, but when you know or think you are going to need to remember something, or do something better, or pay extra attention, it might even be wise to try and do this when ever the thought occurs to you. Take a second and clear your mind, or try to at any rate. Then with your mind clear, focus on the center of your vision, pretend there is a flame right in the center. there is the flame and around the flame there is nothing. the flame and nothing. the flame and the void. It is a little harder when reading, but the point of the matter is to concentrate. And it helps, I don't care that I got it from a Fantasy novel, I have used it, it works.