What will you do if you'll see your ex bf?

Philippines
March 20, 2009 6:31pm CST
I think im stupid i never expected that i will get hurt when i saw in the internet that my ex bf has a new gf. I thought i wont be hurt...... i thought i already forget him..... we're almost one year that we ended out relationship. No communication at all coz i changed my number, i tear and throwed all his pictures. I dont want to cross our ways someday.... im not ready to see him....... Thanks god i dont see him everytime i'll go out. I dont want to feel this heartache..... If you're in my situation what will you do?
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22 responses
@carrine (2743)
• Philippines
21 Mar 09
common, if you not ready to see him meaning, you're not yet recovered, release it, dont hate him, dont think any negative about him, and pray a lot that you will forget him totally with no heartaches and hurting, believe me it will happen, base on my experienced. LOL
@carrine (2743)
• Philippines
22 Mar 09
it doesnt mean if u will see him u will be together again. i mean why cant u be friends? how i wish ur bf is like my x, because in our case, iam the one whos ready to handle everything, in short i want the friendship and he dont give a damn on getting friends with me. LOL many times we see each other , its like we dont see each other or we dont know each other, hes so mean.! and i dont like that kind of attitude, well maybe is not yet recovered. LOL
• Philippines
22 Mar 09
i dont hate him..... i just dont want to see him im not ready to face him.... our parting was not formal....... 2 months ago his friend tried to contact me but i just ignore coz i think it will be complicated if ill go back with him....
• India
21 Mar 09
It is normal to see your ex boy-friend in the street,or in the mall,or may be in some common friends place,but there is nothing to react.If you react,then it will be sure that you still feel for your ex boy-friend.
• Philippines
21 Mar 09
maybe you're right maybe i still have feelings on him......... coz when the time that his friend called me in the phone i thought i really forget him..... he wants me back...... thanks for the comments girl...........
@agmamayo (804)
• Philippines
21 Mar 09
Well, I would kinda hurt really, but don't grieve, make yourself strong there's a better person for you out there. You should be happy that you did not end up with a guy like him, who didn't have time to understand, show respect and above all he didn't value the love that started between you. You need to move one, gradually don't make it too fast, so you won't stumble again. Go on with your own life and let him be, you can find a guy much better than him.
• Philippines
22 Mar 09
thanks for the comments it made me awake.... though i still think of him a little... ill move on totally ill not turn back the time coz past is past... i feel better after i read all the comments whew....... those people who commented me here it really helped me a lot especially you..... thanks again
• China
21 Mar 09
I have broken up with my bf several months ago,and I happened to see his photos in the internet the other day.of course, I feel sad though I don't love him any more.the photoes bring me back many fond memories with my ex bf. since I know that he is no longer my bf, I will wave and say hi when i see him
• Philippines
22 Mar 09
i thought i dont feel with my ex .... when i saw his pics with his gf i think about the moments that we shared those happy and sad moments........ i still think of him at this moment........ im not sure if what will i do if ill see him maybe ill run away.... lol
• United States
21 Mar 09
I'd just move on if I were you. He is your ex for a reason. Life goes on, and we need to move along with it. Men/boys come and go. If I saw any of my ex-boyfriends I would probably turn my head and ignore them, because they are exes for a reason.
• Philippines
21 Mar 09
Of course you will still get sad about that if you haven't accepted the fact that the two of you are already not together. Just be polite enough to smile or look him in the eye and acknowledge the fact that your paths will somehow cross. It isn't so bad, right? He already is happy with someone. Now, it's time for you to be happy too. :)
• China
21 Mar 09
If necessary just go to him and say hello ,to show that you are magnanimous.
@brew2x (3094)
• Philippines
21 Mar 09
I think you just have broken up. If I'm going to see my ex-boyfriend we would probably exchange hellos. I'm already in a relationship with someone else, someone loves me better. I hope he is happy too and find the right girl for him.
@parvezjs (422)
• India
21 Mar 09
If i would have had seen my ex girlfriend with her new boyfriend then I would have had felt bad but just for sometime remembering that we were together before and she was my love before. But I won't react not stop or say say anything as I don't want to interfere in anyone Else's life and as we have had break up she is some one else for me. And why to get jealous when some one is happy in his/her life?
@hiddenwing (3719)
• China
21 Mar 09
It is just that he will get embarrassed. One of my ex boyfriends just married! I know deep down he still loves me! You know what, we broke up just for some misunderstanding. However, I don't want to explain it! My selfesteem can't take this though I am sort of regretting! Man proposes and God disposes. So, just let it go! Last time, I saw him with his bride! He blushed while I smiled! Like before I will hold my head on when I see him next time all the same. Haha
• India
21 Mar 09
Hello my lotter take it easy ,you have seen your ex bf having new gf ,just think about those who see their husbands or boyfreinds with some other ,you have ended your relations with him and still you are feeling so bad ,why ,just imagine a wife when see her husband in the arms of some other women ,what would she feel like,In your case i feel you are feeling bad coz you are alone right now ,what if you get a new bf before he gets a new gf.?just relax take it easy these are the early incidents of life you still have to a lot in life.
• Taiwan
21 Mar 09
In fact,you still care about him,then why break-up at that time? If you don't want to see him again,why you feel sad when you know he has got a new gf? It seems you don't know what you want indeed at all!I apologize to you if my words hurt you.but i wish you can get clear about your relationship. Let bygones be bygones,why don't you start a new love?There are plenty of other fish in the sea. Wish you will be happy and lucky as soon as possible:)
@ziteng (7)
• China
21 Mar 09
well,i have met the same situation with you,i saw his blog and found that he had a new girlfriend who he said he loved very much,obviously,i had a bad mood,ido not know how can a man be so changable,even though he and i had only been together for a short period,i still feel sad,then,i thought for a long time and finally became relieved,i just told myself,he is not my Ms right,i can find someone more suitable and more excellent than him,and now i actully find such a guy,i feel so happy with him.from my personal experience, i should say,give someone a chance which is also a chance for yourself.
• United States
21 Mar 09
It's just natural to feel a little awkard at first especially if its the first time that youre gonna see him after the breakup. If he has a new girlfriend already and if you have really moved on from what happened between the two of you then you must be happy for him. Just act natual and civil towars him. In time, maybe you two can be friends again.
• Philippines
21 Mar 09
hi tiff,,since i started going into( B.F.2x )at 4th year college for just a week..heheehhuhuhu in my own opinion...it DEPENDS on the situation or reason why the two of you broke up..!yes we can say that it hurts,,, in my case: it hurts too,, a lil.heehe now.. i knew that she had already a new one haha g.f.. but for me.., yes im happy for him..well i have moved on a lil.hehehe and i even told him to take care of that g.f!..truly, i am not hoping to continue into that relationship..its good to know that ive learned from it..we belive that if we are really destined..so why not..., go into it..on the right time,place..,right career of life.!am i right?
• Philippines
21 Mar 09
The reason why you are hurting inside its because you have not move on with your own life thats why you can't forget him. If he has hurt you, its nonsense to cry over a guy who isn't worthy of your love and trust. You should be happy because he doesn't deserved you. Life goes on... so forget him and move on girl
• China
21 Mar 09
My ex-bf hurt me so much, I will never forgive him and talk to him, if I meet him one day, he must be a stranger to me! For it is not wealthy of talking with him! And I am trying my best to forget him, I will succeed.
• Philippines
21 Mar 09
huhuhu we have almost the same story.....its really hard, i also saw him last at the internet with his new one, I was shocked and can't easily think of anything but to cry silently..... after all this time I don't know what will be the best thing to do if I see him personally.
@chriswolf (360)
• China
20 Mar 09
Oh, I am very sorry to hear that. I was wondering how you two broke up before. But there is a bottom line. If he did a bad thing to make you leave or even hurt you badly, then there is not any reason you should think of him. Just skip him as much as possible. If you don't care, you won't feel heartache whether you see him or not. I know this will take time. Wish you happy soon.
@BUNSAI (3)
• Philippines
21 Mar 09
obviously first i will feel bad, but all of those ill just part of my life. May be if that happened I just talk to him but just a friend only.
• China
21 Mar 09
Someone leaved,then another one will come to you soon.My friend , if I am in your situation,I think I will cry for one night and tomorrow I will refresh myself. You are not stupid and lovely very much,you know ,you just lose one tree in your life,there is a hole forest waiting for you@_@ Believe yourself and looking forward to your new life and Mr.Right!