how did your last relationship end?

United States
March 21, 2009 4:23am CST
it would be fun to recall how our last relationship ended and what was the cause... mine ended in my house when my ex- came visiting and after about 3 hours called me and told me that she could no longer continue with the relationship because she was not in love with me anymore... i guess i had to let her go only to find out that she was getting set to wed my best friend... lol it was a nasty experience though
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@yoyo2323 (465)
• China
21 Mar 09
hehe i was angry with his childish selfish and mean .then i break up with him in a rainy day!i think it is a kind a of good!
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• United States
21 Mar 09
i guess it rained on him so hard to understand that he just lost a jewl to someone else. so how is all going now? guess fine
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@yoyo2323 (465)
• China
21 Mar 09
now i am singal now .i feel free now.when i was in relationship with him he always limit me and angry with me baout i talk to some other guys .and he even doesn't believe me !but in fact he is cheating on me! so i think we 'd better break up! and now we all have our own life!
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• United States
21 Mar 09
its a new world for both of you now... live your life
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21 Mar 09
hmm... very sorry to hear that, billgatexp. It hurts and it hurts bad. I spoke about my relationship in a discussion I began a couple of days ago. It now more or less seems like it has ended. Strangely, instead of being totally devastated, a calm has descended over me. It wasnt meant to be perhaps, because he had begun emotionally distancing himself from me. Too bad. I wish him well and let him move on. Chewing on the experience - like it were chewing gum - will only stress me out more. so, I've decided to bury myself in my work, study and mylot :) You'll be out of this phase soon, bill. Time is a great healer. There will be other things and people who will come by to give you happiness. Count your blessings and forgive the curses.
• United States
21 Mar 09
thanks so much for the contribution.. i will cherish it... lots of love
27 Mar 09
Hey! thanks for giving me a Best Response, bill. I didnt notice it until a while ago when going through my profile. Much appreciated! It is my first BR on mylot. hurrayy
@cieldz (709)
• Indonesia
22 Mar 09
i didnt love my ex anymore, but he didnt want let me go with a lot of reason he made, so i cheated of him so we can broke up.... but now i dont wanna cheat anymore, cos i really love my guy now... =)
• United States
22 Mar 09
you better lovehim because you never can tell if he is your dream man... there must be a stint in that relationship and you must take the pains to discover it... try to love and determine if he is the right man and if he is lucky you... you just found a gold mine
@cieldz (709)
• Indonesia
22 Mar 09
yeah my new guy is totally different than my ex... me and my boyfriend really respect and love each other, and we have a really big faith and trustworthy... even we must have a long distance relationship now for a year... =)
@sid556 (30988)
• United States
22 Mar 09
My last relationship did not end so bad...at least for me. It just wasn't working for me....he didn't work most of the time....didn't try to.He treated me fine but had a lot of anger issues with the world in general. He had a real tough life and just had a lot of baggage. It was dragging me down so I told him that it wasn't working out and that was that. I heard from mutual friends that he had a tough time at first but he came around. He brought me flowers on my birthday and we talked. No hard feelings there at all. My boyfriend prior to him tho...nightmare. He was unbelieveable. we finally broke up when he read my horoscope and it said that I had a hot date that night. He showed up at my house early in the morning. I was getting ready to run errands that day...first day off in days. He thought I was preparing for the hot date. It was just one in many incidents that led up to me calling it quits. He got very crazy after I said enough was enough. It was a nitemare. He is probably the only ex that I am not civil with. We have not spoken since and I'm fine with it.
• United States
22 Mar 09
Hmmmmmmmm.. do you believe in horoscope? sometime these thing could cause a stir in our affairs dont you think so?
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@sid556 (30988)
• United States
23 Mar 09
The horoscopes in the paper and on the internet are just for entertainment. I've read up on astrology and there may have been a little more to that, I think. I find it very interesting. Horoscopes? No...I do not believe that every taurus in the world had a hot date on that nite. I certainly did not.
@natalusiQ (118)
• Slovak Republic
21 Mar 09
i broke up with my boyfriend, because i cant give him up :/ i gave time for it..i thought that it can be better, but later i started make meeting with other boy...it was only sometimes..but later i realized that i was rather with this other boy than with my boyfriend..so i broke up with my boyfriend..and now i am going out with boy with who i met before..later after broke up i realized that i broke up with my old boyfriend because of my present boy :)i didn´t admit it..but after longer time i´ve realized it
• United States
21 Mar 09
and do you regret this action? i guess u did
• Slovak Republic
22 Mar 09
not i haven´t regreted it :) i havent got a reason why to regret..this relationship is better than this before..i love this person with who i am now...person with who i went out before i didnt love..i only like him...he sometimes has behaved than little child..a man with who i go out now is older of me about 9 years..and he´s behaved than adult man not than child..now i am inlove.and i hope that it will keep as long as possible :P i will be doing everything for it :)
• United States
22 Mar 09
I giggled when I read where you said it would be fun to recall how our last relationship ended. Most of the replies did not sound fun. My last boyfriend broke up with me the day before Valentines. He said he did it because his friend said I was mean to him and was using him. (This was in high school) About an hour ofter I got of the phone with him his best friend called and asked me out. I was like NO. Well he moved and I did not hear from him for a while. Then on day out of the blue my mom called and said your X left a message for you. Mind you it has been years and I was now married and had a child. I called out of curiosity (you know you would too) and he just called to see if I was still available because no one he ever found was as understanding and fun to be with as me. (It always makes you feel good when someone tells you these things) Any way he said he lives alone and has a bad job and he was lonely. Kinda made me sad. He was not a bad person he just listened to what his friends would tell him and not do what he wanted. But any way this break up was bad for me because he was my first big relationship. I am truly sorry for the ones who got dumped. But sometimes it is for the best.
• United States
22 Mar 09
relationshipa are not built on hear say and a third party... once you involve a third party or start listening to what people say, then start waiting for a crumbled relationship... thanks for sharing
@coffeeshot (3785)
• Australia
22 Mar 09
You poor guy, that must have been so hard. But if she had her eye on your best mate all that time, you're better off without her AND your best friend! This is how mine ended. We just grew apart and one day he told me he was moving back to his hometown becasue "there's nothing left for me here anymore".
• United States
22 Mar 09
sorry about that too.. i have gotten over it and so i have continued my quest for a better lover that will eventually be my wife... thanks though
@parvezjs (422)
• India
21 Mar 09
My last relationship ended because of our families. Now I don't think about it anymore I just think whatever happened happened for our good and I am happily married now and going to have a kid soon. Everything is planned by God and accordingly we get that when the right time comes and so we loose such relationships on which we laugh later thinking about that what was that.
• United States
21 Mar 09
i will never let my family interfer with my affair talkless stopping me from marrying whomever i chose. i will live with the person and not them so why would they tell who to marry?
@pickwick (858)
• India
21 Mar 09
Was just going through the responses to your discussions.So sorry for the way relations ending up this way.In India once you are married then its for the lifetime usaully.There has to be lot of sacrifices and compramises in a relation.In India most of the middle class families bring up their daughters teaching them that they should be ready for compramises and adjustments in the family.It sounds unfair but maybe that is the reason why the marriage rates are so successful here.
• United States
21 Mar 09
i believe you are right and as such marriages dont last here.. it all depends on the individuals and fate
@jiacky (191)
• China
21 Mar 09
haha!I have forgot how my last relationship ended!It was several years ago.I even forget when it start!
• United States
21 Mar 09
that is one hell of a person... you are damn funny
@dudeskee (19)
• Philippines
21 Mar 09
mine ended because of his addiction in playing online game.. online game "audition"??.. he plays 24/7 and he even had a gf there..he chose the girl over me...and the game.. big jerk actually..he cried coz he said he loves me so much..only to find out a week after that they had an affair going on for 2months..hmmm..long story short.. i broke up with him.. such a liar..;)
• United States
21 Mar 09
hmmm. what a man!!! you just have to keep on going
@rymebristol (1786)
• Philippines
21 Mar 09
how my last relationship ended?.."TRAGIC"...she passed away, and that is like being in "H E L L". it's been 3 months since she left me, it's like half of myself goes with her. when i was single, i imagined being in this kind of a situation. a situation where the loved of your would all of a sudden leave you behind, but i never thought that it's going to be this tough, so hard as it may seem but right now i am trying to live my life one step at a time.
• United States
21 Mar 09
sorry about that... i guess you will find a replacement soonest but for now, God is your strength
@cherriemae (3373)
• Philippines
21 Mar 09
hi there billgatexp..mine was ended last january 16, 2009, in the office.. after my work i texted him for me to come over to his house coz i need to talk to him with a certain issue about him.. but he came in my office.. we talk and suddenly i said everything i wanted to say, i cried then i said we need to end this relationship..then he agreed on my decision.. but i'm happy with my decision, i'm happy because i'm single again then and i dont have regrets with it..
• United States
21 Mar 09
i hope you are carrying on with life.. your life must not be embedded on one man... its normal to break up
• Brazil
21 Mar 09
i can't remember well because i think i was asleep x)