Do You Hate Shopping With Your Guy Or Other Men At Your Home?

@Archie0 (4666)
March 21, 2009 12:41pm CST
I seriously hate going for a ashopping with males in my family.i dont have a guy yet by gods grace nor even a husband but i can imagine what it will be... because Men never like shopping much not most of them. my dad is always with his heart in his mouth, he is never calm while shopping, even my brother.i just dont like to go with them becaue when i go i forget what i have to buy.and i worry so much about the time that i end up buying something wrong. i love to shop alone many times, because it is much better i can choose what i like what and how do you like? does your guy or famile men give you time to shop??
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• South Korea
22 Mar 09
oh yeah, i rather go with my mother in law or my friends that to go with my husband or any man in my house they are very lazy to go to shopping seems they really hates it..i thought only my husband is weird in times of shopping but seems all men are same?well,men and women have their own uniquenes,
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@Archie0 (4666)
22 Mar 09
yes you are right mens have different choices and so do women.but i guess what is that a men really like? till now i am confused, he never found worldly pleasures in anything else yet today i guess.he has out of the world choices to be made
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• South Korea
22 Mar 09
as i noticed men like watching tv like sports or comedy and also they loved online games hahah meet with friends and drink and smoke isn't?but women we like dramas shopping with girly stuffs chitchat with friends....thats why women and men cannot be the same.
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22 Mar 09
i hate shopping,i can not find any interesting thing about shopping,if i need something ,i will go to buy directly and not idle about,but sometimes i must accompany with my wife and help walk about and carry commodity
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@Archie0 (4666)
22 Mar 09
i think you should try out shopping with your wife one evening in city and have dinner together, i bet thats really good idea its fun
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• Philippines
22 Mar 09
I don't mind shopping with a guy unless he's my boyfriend. 'cause I can say my boyfriend has a great taste on fashion. He knows what looks good on me. But when it takes soo long for me to find something to buy, he becomes impatient. I also tried shopping with my brother, well, I think he's the most impatient guy in the world. He keeps on complaining. I think guys are really like that, they are impatient when it comes to shopping. Cause I think guys are impulsive buyers..
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@Archie0 (4666)
22 Mar 09
yes they are, i dont what is it with them but they dont even like shopping for themselve sometimes.
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@lynnemg (4536)
• United States
22 Mar 09
There are times when I want my husband with me, but more often than not, I am going solo or with one of my kids. My husband likes to get in and out of the store as quickly as he can, and when I have a lot of shopping to do, that can really drive me crazy. I will admit, there have been times when he has gone with me and started the, "Are we ready to go yet?" stuff with me, and I have purposely lingered in the store just to take longer. He has learned not to ask that question too often!
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@Archie0 (4666)
22 Mar 09
lolzz.. same things happen with if i got my parents with me..i dont have a guy or husband yet, but i can still imagine the situation from now
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@se7enthbird (8324)
• Philippines
22 Mar 09
me and my wife always go out together. from the time we went as gf and bf, then we started living together then got married. when she will buy something i am there when she will but something for me i am there. when we need to go to the grocery i am there as well. i know that she will take long so i always bring a book or my console games. or i sometimes go to the barber shop ang get a hair cut or a massage while she is gone out doing her thing. now that we have our son we always go out together and shop. sometimes when i need to go buy some stuffs that we forgot to buy i go alone. i just have a list on what to buy.
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@Archie0 (4666)
22 Mar 09
Wow that is so loving. i wish all are like you though.. :)
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• United States
22 Mar 09
I don't mind sharing a shopping day with a man. it's my daughter I can't stand. She wants everything she see's while shopping. I can't get nothing for myself if she is with me. So I have had to get up and leave while she is sleep to get me done.
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@Archie0 (4666)
22 Mar 09
oh yes i forgot this totally sometimes i guess men are better than the kids..yes it is really difficult though to handle them while shopping we can either shop or look after them
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@jassics (206)
• India
21 Mar 09
see archie0, your statement shows bit selfishness in you although you are not i guess. sometimes people do shopping for the sake of other's happiness and if your parents and any other guy say your husband, your brother or your boyfriend is saying you something or offending at your choice that means might be as a viewer they don't like or think that it will not suit you. so sometimes accept their words also. you will know the value of family and their care when you will live alone and will need their help or assistance even for small decision. and its not that men don't give time to their female counterpart but reality is that female section never listen to male's choice and in my personal view i wish to go with my mom, with my girl friend and with my wife in future because i love to go shopping and spending time with my family
@Archie0 (4666)
22 Mar 09
There are few like you who love shopping as i have mentioned at end..and i do stay alone dear from past 3 years lol. second thing is it is our choice what to wear and what not, men are just too dominating in nature just because they think they are..and i dont really agree with it. well if i get married in future.i would not allow my husband to be in between me and my shopping bags, plzz..lol thanks for this take care have fun :)
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@bunnybon7 (43803)
• Holiday, Florida
21 Mar 09
yes it would probably be better for you to shop alone. take them to home depot though and they will shop all day i never like shopping myself. guess im a strange woman but my late hubby was the only man i think that loved to shop anywhere, even clothes. i would end up sitting out somewhere with all the men thats wives were shopping
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@Archie0 (4666)
21 Mar 09
oh god really??? you dint like shopping??.. and i am sorry to hear about your husband :(
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@bubbletush (1333)
• Philippines
21 Mar 09
I'd rather shop alone than shop with a man in tow. They are very impatient when it comes to shopping. They do not understand how enjoyable it is because they are males. They would also make unnecessary comments on the items that women want to buy.
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@Archie0 (4666)
21 Mar 09
yes you are right. men are too impatient.they almost hate it i think, i dont understand why on earth they do hate such a lovely entertainment..lol
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@nchap36 (556)
• United States
22 Mar 09
I feel you on the brother and father situation, but all men are not alike. My ex-husband was my best shopping buddy. Oh how I love to go shopping with him. He made me tired when going shopping. My ex was different then any other man I knew on shopping. That's one of the good things I miss about him.
@zhontine (127)
• China
22 Mar 09
Women are made go shopping,but not the man.hahaha............
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22 Mar 09
I didnt like going shopping with my bf when he was around, simply because he was so impatient. I used to end up buying most of my stuff online as a result. I like browsing,checking prices between shops before buying, but with an impatient man around, that is virtually impossible!
@Archie0 (4666)
22 Mar 09
ya this is also with me if my brother comes to shop with me i buy wrong stuffs, sometimes even my sister sucks she also moans when i take too long
@mz_Ira (1091)
• Philippines
22 Mar 09
sometimes I do get irritated when my fiance rattles me at the mall.. I love to go window and if there's something I fancy I buy it.. Shopping is my therapy when I'm stressed or have been busy too much for the week. It is my way of relaxation and to refreshen my mind. Its not helpful though if fiance talks about the time, I go blank of what I want to buy and planning to buy.... However, fiance is cool at most times. When we go to the mall, he's the one who chooses what is nice for me like flip flops, tops or bags... even knickers too.. Its funny sometime coz when i think of the price he doesnt mind even if the value is a bit high for that.. Neways, he pays for everything..yeah he's my banker..lolz
@Archie0 (4666)
22 Mar 09
wow even i love to go window sometimes and yes it is ofcourse a very good stress buster..but when men are there the stress buster seems to get bursted.lolwell he is a banker
@hershiez (464)
22 Mar 09
I also love to shop alone 'coz it's like that all of the time is only mine. Hehehe..
@Archie0 (4666)
22 Mar 09
yes even me..just because of this hehehe
@abanerji (1026)
• India
22 Mar 09
well, women and girls would never like shopping with the male. men don't tend to waste time in choosing clothes etc. they select things very fast and expect women to be like them. hence, i like shopping alone most of the time. but have you ever tried shopping with your mother. it is absolute fun. any mother like to see her daughter beautifully dressed and believe me, she would give you the world's time to sellect your dress, she would not let you pay for your purchase and finally you would see that you have bought more than you expected. so, if you haven't tried shopping with mom, then try it once.