Communication is still the best solution... Ofcourse. Don't you think so?
By gyouswe911
@gyouswe911 (273)
Philippines
March 21, 2009 9:15pm CST
Every time some couple would fight, there would always be someone behind their back giving advices... And most of them would always give wrong advice to that couple. Why? Because they don't really know a thing about them or whats happening between the two. So when it comes to love, and you want the perfect advice for every love problems, the perfect one is this: to just simply talk. Like I said, communication is still the best solution. So what do you guys think?
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5 responses
@agmamayo (804)
• Philippines
22 Mar 09
Communication in fact is best for a couple, no matter how grave the situation they're into. Gossips and intrigues don't help much they even aggravate the situation, and cause misunderstanding. Sometimes people around them create intrigues or gossips that tend to mislead further the argument to a serious conflict. Thats why it is important to have an open communication between the couple involved, talk face to face in a private place, share every thoughts,grievances,accusations and misunderstandings on the table to sort out what wrong between them and talk about how you will find a solution to it. Communicating also helps relieve any doubts between the partners, and they can clearly know why their argument needs to be settled fair and square. So I guess its really better to talk to each other privately than seeking advice from others.
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@migsmartinez (1293)
• Philippines
22 Mar 09
Hey there! I think communication between the couple is the best solution. Other people can give you advice but they're not in the relationship so they don't have first-hand experience of that relationship. When me and my girlfriend fight, we have a talk after and work things out. It's the best solution.
@gyouswe911 (273)
• Philippines
22 Mar 09
Thought so too man. tn for the response. And good luck on your current relationship.
@rsa101 (37952)
• Philippines
22 Mar 09
Yup most of the things that destroys a relationship is lack of communication or miscommunication. I really think that the only way to resolve a problem is for the two person involve in the probelm to talk because they are the one that knows what the problem is all about.
@lynnemg (4529)
• United States
22 Mar 09
I agree. THe best solution is more often than not, communication. There are some times when abuse is a part of it though and communication is no longer an option.
I am a believer that we really do not know how another person's life is when we are not there to see it all, even then, there are things we don't know.
@lvjunjie (80)
• China
22 Mar 09
Yeah,you are right .some time i don't think to get on well with people is hard .
it is esay for us to deal with some difficult things .site back ,have a simple talk and make a apologise .the fight can be ending .so we need to talk with our partener as much as possible .
