Having a hard time responding and commenting

@raydene (9874)
United States
March 22, 2009 8:37am CST
I don't know what is wrong with me lately. I seem to be in lecturer mode. I have lots to say and love to read the responses and enjoy reading my friends discussions but am having a hard time responding to friends discussions or commenting on responses to mine I am feeling pretty well mentally..but... I have been slapped around a bit on another site that the x and his conquests frequent I do want all of you friends know that I read your discussions care about what you have to say and hope you don't think I am being amiss with you. I appreciate your friendship xoxoxoxoxo
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@aisaellis22 (6449)
• United States
22 Mar 09
Hello raydene! That's what happened to me too. I don't know why. I used to make 100 posts a day but now, I even hardly make one post in one day. I tried to respond to a discussion and although it's interesting, I reall can't even type and can't think of what to say.
• United States
17 Apr 09
thanks for the best response raydene..
• Philippines
1 Jun 09
I also have a problem like that before, because of the system of my computer. But now I can visit to Mylot regularly, what I do is to check on my friends discussion, but some of it don't have my interest so I don't respond. But what I promised that I read every discussio my friends have. About commenting, I have no discussion so far so my problem is about my old discussion. I know some of the members especially the new one drop by to read it and respond but I just read their respond and did not put any comment on it. I just can't manage my time.
@Darkwing (21588)
26 Mar 09
No worries, my friend. It's difficult to adjust to that kind of treatment... makes you feel as though what you say is worthless. Well, let me tell you, that it's what those people who've slapped you around say, that is worthless. They've attacked you en masse, and that's a cowardly thing to do. There's nothing wrong with the quality of your discussions or responses, so why don't you shut those people out of your life and concentrate on the ones who are going to treat you in the way you deserve, my friend. You're a special person to a lot of people, so they're but a speck in your life. Remember... get rid of the negatives and encourage the positive. I love you, Raydene. You're a lovely lady, and don't you ever forget that! Brightest Blessings in love and light. xxxx
@deejean06 (1953)
• United States
23 Mar 09
Hi raydene! I'm so sorry you're having a hard time on other sites. Everyone needs some time alone. We'll be here when you return!
@sirrob (4112)
• Philippines
23 Mar 09
I just felt the same way here. I had all the time yesterday and lots of them but I only had a few response made to everyone. I decided to watch movies for the thought that I am only had too much yet find a hard time to formulate anything at all after then. So I sleep and woke up very late today.
@winterose (39897)
• Canada
23 Mar 09
hon we all go through periods like this, it will pass, if you like a site you will bounce back and be your old self again, don't worry about it. We know and understand.
@littleowl (7157)
23 Mar 09
Hi Raydene..hope you feel better in yourself soon, but no probs when it comes to responding to others discussion's as I am sure they understand, but it is nice of you to tell everyone why...hugs littleowl
@faith210 (11233)
• Philippines
23 Mar 09
Hi raydene! That is alright my dear friend. Anytime that you are ready. I hope that you will not be affected greatly with whatever the x is up to. You are very special and beautiful person and they are not worth your attention or time. I appreciate you and the friendship we share my dear! Take care and blessings to you. lovelots..faith
@messageme (2821)
• United States
23 Mar 09
Well we appreciate your commitment too. You always have interesting discussions. Good luck on your other site and hope to see you soon!!
@weemam (13377)
22 Mar 09
don't worry sweetheart , I can't get on as much as I can either xx Wee xx
@savypat (20245)
• United States
22 Mar 09
Well I miss you but know what it is to go trough a bad experience, it makes you more cautious not wanting to be slapped around again. Never forget the delete button. Blessings
• United States
22 Mar 09
I certainly would not go to any site that my x or his friends went to. Why make myself unhappy. I thought you had seemed to move on pretty well.