love give more benefits or suffer?

Every coin has two sides@_@ When fall in love with someone, you may get benefits from your lover, like happiness , love , attention and any other nice ones , however, at the same time , you will get suffer from your lover... Though love may give suffer to me ,I stick to my love and hold it with my lover.@_@ Just enjoy your love whatever it gives you , benefits or suffer ,and enjoy both!@_@

i think i am lucky in that case. i enjoy my life with my love. my love is very loving and caring for me. i think suffering and enjoy are depends on understanding of both persons. What do you think about this?

For me it's both, the benefits are so much like you learn so many things, like loving, understanding, and time to share life. You do things voluntarily, it comes from your heart cause you want to be both happy. Suffer is when you are loosing the person, committing mistakes and you can't handle regrets. Do you know that you will only know your in love when you feel pain. That is real love not letting it go and trying to work out things. We learned life from this suffering and trials by changing our selves and still go on with life. Anyway have a nice day to you!