What NEXT after being cheated in a relationship?
By prath_pk
@prath_pk (18)
India
March 23, 2009 3:35am CST
Well halo my fellow myloters!
I have been in a relationship for 5 years with a girl and were very happy with each other. We both were very deep into each other and very much close. In these 5 years we have shared things, made fun, went outdoors even we fought over things as others do but still were together. I even went to jail once & got beaten up by police for some reasons just so that the things should not get to her & she gets trapped & have some thousands of rupees of debts on me which i m still bearing and she even dont know yet that i had all done for her and i never even told her about all this and never even want to tell.
despite of all these she left me & is right now carrying on with some1 else although i havent forgotten her whereas the fact is that i still love her.
i wud ask you people what you wud have done in my shoes?
2 responses
@roniroxas (10560)
• Philippines
23 Mar 09
welcome to mylot prath hope you like it here like most of us do. well sometimes when we hide a lot from our partner it ends up being us the loser. maybe if you said that all before to her then it might be a different scenario. i think you have to move on. learn your lesson and accept the fact that you are not meant for each other. move on. give yourself time to heal then when you are ready then you can love again. goodluck with your lovelife and goodluck here at mylot
@leahmarie33 (75)
• United States
23 Mar 09
to be burtally honest i think if she has moved on then you should move on as well. maybe if she sees you are APPEAR happy without her she will get jealous and want you back. relationships and breakups are the most difficult complex situations ever so its ultimately your own decision cause only you have all the details. If that doesnt work then maybe try talking to her? who knows! she could be unlike most girls or she can be the same as most. If she is 100 percent positive about moving on then the only thing you can do (as sad as it is) is to push through the tough times and move on! you will eventually be happier because neither of you would be content in a relationship based on false pretenses. good luck!
@prath_pk (18)
• India
24 Mar 09
hi there leah
thanx for ur advice but i ve played all cards to stay out of her way & at the same time stay happy myself but it didnt worked out.
I never thought of any other girl in my life never did I cheated her but still i got this handsome reward, thats what hurt me the most.
But 1 thing what i ve found is that, more than anything else i ve alwaz loved her innocence very much but now she has lost that innocence.
Newaz thanx 4 ur valuable feedback.
