Judging one by look

@lak2jai (807)
India
March 23, 2009 11:55am CST
We cannot and should not judge one person by just look only. Lot and lot of things matters in that. Hence before judging one, we should be careful and look all aspects we need.
4 responses
@mermaidivy (15404)
• United States
23 Mar 09
I think it is very true. Some people looks like an angel but they could be an evil behind people, I have seen and encountered more than 5 people who were like this and sometimes you really need to take time to find out what that person's personality is. So I never judge somebody by looking at their appearance.
@lak2jai (807)
• India
24 Mar 09
I hope you got some bitter experiences. Though I started the discussion in the right way I fear whether will it give any wrong signals to the right people
@chemcdow (149)
• United States
23 Mar 09
While this is true, everyone does it at least a little, because we associate peoples characteristics with their looks. That is where stereotypes come from. People act as if they are terrible, but it is a very easy way to classify someone that most people will understand. It is fine to judge someone, as long as you try to get to know them as well. I judge based on looks, but i try to get to know them also.
@lak2jai (807)
• India
24 Mar 09
Thanks for your discussion and expect more detailed discussion on this.
• United States
23 Mar 09
I think it's important not to judge ENTIRELY based on looks, but that looks do matter to a degree. I mean if someone walks into your house looking really sloppy and out of shape that might say something about how much they take care of themself. If someone shows up in designer label clothes, they probably care about things like that. My point is...you can't base everything on appearance but appearance can sometimes give you an idea of what you're in for.
@lak2jai (807)
• India
24 Mar 09
You are hundred percent correct and thanks for your comments
• United States
23 Mar 09
When i met my boyfriend for the first time it was at his parents house and he was on the floor kicking and screaming at some girl, I'm glad i went past that and got to know him. The second time we met was at a restaurant and he just didn't dress very good at all, so i of course went above and beyond that and saw him for his face ( very cute) and his personality. He was so nice and charming and so funny. He now dresses good thanks to me and he hasn't had any other experiences of kicking and screaming on the floor, but he has yelled at a couple of girls that were in his past that were trying to break us apart.
@lak2jai (807)
• India
24 Mar 09
Thanks for your participation. I am sure and pray for the more unity among you and your boy friedn. Donot break for silly things, but talk gently solve and get united. Getting together good ones are mouch more difficult, but set apart is very easy.