Should men help?

@lynnchua (3412)
Singapore
March 23, 2009 9:43pm CST
Do you think that it is a woman's job to do all the cooking and cleaning in the house? Should men help up their poor woman?
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7 responses
@bloglog (628)
• Singapore
24 Mar 09
I believe in marriage, everything should be shared between both husband and wife. Leaving the women to do all the house job should not be the case. What's more, doing some cooking together may also help in getting closer and improve in the relationship. This is another task which both can do together.
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@lynnchua (3412)
• Singapore
27 Mar 09
Ya, agree. Sharing and doing house chores can help in getting and improve in the relationship but that's all depend on individual.
• India
24 Mar 09
i like qa husbund who shares home works together . i am working as a nurse so i dont gett enogh time to do all work alone so he is healping me . he is also a nurse in my hospital so we shares work .. happy myllotting ..
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@lynnchua (3412)
• Singapore
27 Mar 09
Thanks for the response, you are lucky to have someone who would share the house works with you.
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
24 Mar 09
Hi Dear Well If Woman is house wife then sure its her job and if Man Want he can help her too like moving the garden, doing some other stuff But if both Woman and Man are working, then for sure both should help in these chores tooo Take care
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
3 Apr 09
@lynnchua (3412)
• Singapore
27 Mar 09
Hi cupid, I do agree with you. You are such a nice and understanding guy.
@deepakde (156)
• India
24 Mar 09
yes i agree with u but man can also help to women . he can to help shoping, cooking,cleanig .lots of man can help to women and some man's did not help to women . because its depend their job .
@lynnchua (3412)
• Singapore
27 Mar 09
That's great if men help. Like you said shopping , cooking and do some cleaning will be a great help to women. Thanks for the response.
@j47lee (740)
• Canada
24 Mar 09
Of course men should help around the house... the times have change where women have to do the housework..... i'm glad my husband help around the house.. sometimes he does the dishes with me.. sometimes help with the laundry.....
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@lynnchua (3412)
• Singapore
27 Mar 09
Ya! time had changed, but some men doesn't change. Some men I know still behave the same old way their dad does. Stick themselves to the couch reading newspaper or watch the television after dinner (after work).
@writer44 (58)
• United States
24 Mar 09
Good evening, my husband offers to help do the housework, but if he didn't I would still feel comfortable approaching him about, it knowing he wouldn't mind. Since I work and go to college from home and he works elsewhere, I can easily do it over the course of the day myself. His work is a whole lot tougher than mine and I love to take care of him and spoil him anyway. I think that good communication is the answer to these problems in the home. Being apprehensive about asking probably means don't bother asking in the first place.
@lynnchua (3412)
• Singapore
27 Mar 09
Hi writer 44, I think you have a great husband. Some husband doesn't like to be communicated with such chores.
@kprofgames (3091)
• United States
24 Mar 09
Marriage should be a give and take. To be honest if she works too then all household chorse, cleaning, laundry, cooking should be shared. Some wifes don't work outside the home, but that still doesn't mean that it should all fall in her lap. I guess it really depends on the couple and the agreement they have between the two of them. As long as they are both happy with their chorse, shared or not, then it's their relationship. As for me? I do a lot of cooking (get outta my way) and a lot of outside, yard work stuff, so laundry is where he picks up the slack.
@lynnchua (3412)
• Singapore
27 Mar 09
I do agree with you, that depend on the couple's agreement. But I think no matter what the man should help up a little, like what yours do picks up the slack.