friend or lover?

I don't want to lose both but thankfully in my case I don't have to choose because I can keep both. I married my best friend who is also my lover.

In the first place, why do I have to choose? I don't get the point why people are asking people to choose between two people. (Sorry repeating the word people thrice.) Actually, I can have them both in my life without hurting anyone. It is not as if I am choosing whom to marry--my bestfriend or my lover. In that case, it's obvious that I'd choose my lover. Anyway, all I want to point out is, we don't have to be in the point that we need to choose between our bestfriend or lover or any other people per se. They are significant in our lives and it is not necessary that only should be part of your life. I know, I have not really chosen one because I can keep them both. You can do, too. It's a matter of decision really.

Hi friend, In everyone's life both friends and lovers are important to us. A friend and lover so much difference will be their, for me a true friend is a true friend in my life. Life is beautiful.

I will choose lover. because lover can turn into best friend. but best friend can't be lover.

I would rather not choose anyone but will try to keep them both. But in case, I will have to choose between them, I will keep my lover since we can eventually be the best of friends.