Baby Momma Drama

United States
March 25, 2009 12:04pm CST
I hate it when a mother uses her child as a weapon. If your baby's daddy does not want to be with you, why would he be with because of a threat. My friend's baby's moma is trying to take him back to court so she can leave state with his daughter. He is not suppose to talk to her because a court order that his baby's momma had placed on him. Yet she calls all the time trying to talk to him. I do not think it is fair that he is suppose to avoid her at all cost yet she can call him all day long. Tell me you baby's momma stories
5 responses
@Gesusdid (1676)
• United States
26 Mar 09
wow that soounds really ignorant of her , yeah shes one of those baby mamas , i think she just wants him to act out so she can prove to the judge that the child can be with her , just to vex him
• United States
27 Mar 09
The way it is right now she can not leave state with the child. I think she is trying to get that lifted. The only reason is wants to move out of state is to spite my friend. That way he will not be able to see his child. I believe that the father is an important part of a child's life.
@soulist (2985)
• United States
26 Mar 09
She shouldnt treat him like that. He should have rights as a father and like not call him when she got the court order for him to not have contact with her. He could easily show the court that and they can see that she was trying to breach that order.
• United States
26 Mar 09
that is a good idea. In fact I am going to talk to him about it the next time we talk.
25 Mar 09
Hi phoenix, The husband should call the court to tell them what the baby's mother is doing and its doing his head in, I don't think that is fair at all and she should not be allowed to take the child out of the states either. I have no children. Bright Blessings. Tamara
26 Mar 09
Hi phoenix, Thank you for giving me best response on your discussion. Brightes Blessings Tamara
@jessi0887 (2788)
• United States
25 Mar 09
I agree with you. She shouldn't be taking his baby out of state. Some woman are just crazy though. My fiance and i were split during our childs first year. I never did anything like that. I let him see his son. And he gave me money to help out with stuff i needed for his son.
• United States
25 Mar 09
It is a control thing. I am hoping that all works out for the best. I will keep you posted on what is going on.
• United States
25 Mar 09
Well in my case I am the 'baby mama' (I loathe that phrase, so that will be the last time I use it.) When my kids dad and I split up I never wanted to see them again. My mother was the one that told me I needed to get over myself and do what was best for the children. Now we have a pretty good situation. Each dad does his part and my family acts as a buffer so that we don't have to have any direct contact. The buffer hasn't been necessary for years since we have all moved on with our lives. We even manage to have a good time together at family gatherings! On the flip side of that my husband's ex-wife is still trying to kick up the drama. I suppose deep down she still wants him back so she uses their daughter as a means of forcing him to hav econtact with her. I suppose the amount of drama really depends on the woman's agenda.
• United States
26 Mar 09
I do not understand it either. The funny part is that it is not like she wants him back. She has had the chance to do so several times now. Each time she will turn him down without a second thought. I think she just wants to have him as a back up plan just in case her and her new boyfriend do not make it.