how do i deal with this emotional whiplash with a guy i may be falling for....?
March 25, 2009 10:44pm CST
ok well theres this guy i like A LOT! but the thing is after everything he says he doesnt like me then later on he comes back to me and i take him. then he went on saying there was something about me and he didnt know wat that he didnt like and it overpowered what he did like about me. i dnt know wat to do i see him everyday at skol and i dont know wat to do bcuz i DO know he likes me a lot just as much as i do him but he's driving me insane by giving me emotional whiplash and with everything that ive been through with my ex (not saying anything bout that bcuz its too painful) and him doing this to me kills me. also his sister is my best friend but she knows everything thats going on. i just need some serious help or anyone whos gone through this how you dealt with this.
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26 Mar 09
aww once again another reason why guys dont like me. well he fist need to be sure either he does like you or not. like everything about you. if he is causing you all these mix emotions you need to do some soul searching and think if he's worth all the emotion whip lash, and confusing. but guys who know a girl had a bad break up will use that for thier benfits. they will tell you everything you want to hear and then say stuipd things. so once again do some soul searching. you want a guy who will treat you with up most respect, and not play games with your heart or emotions. and if he cant kick him to the curb.
30 Mar 09
Hi JoEy, I think when you feeling loving with someone you feel blinded with your emotions, even it's already hurting you. We still expect even our time is wasted just to feel it, even it's already so frustrating, and pain that we can't resist anymore. I just think you need time for your self first searching for the broken pieces picking it piece by piece. A quiet time to think alone. Asking yourself what you really want after all the pains to go on with life and you deserve the best and that is being happy. Did you ever think do he thinks of you, feels the way you feel. Don't you think it's time to stand up and change for the better. You have a life JoEy to go on and on. Just let time heal first the wounds. If it's really for you it will just happen. Have a nice day to you!
26 Mar 09
eventhough you know that he likes you but he can't express his feelings for you because of that "something" that he don't like about you..for me, if you love someone then you have to accept him or her for what he/ she is regardless of the negative things about him/her.. happy mylotting!