The Perfect Man/Woman

love - I think the photo speaks for itself^_^
United States
March 25, 2009 11:58pm CST
Of course nobody can really be perfect, but I just wanted to know what people are looking for in his or her ideal mate. It can be physical appearances or personality. I, for one, prefer personality over physical appearance, but being good looking doesn't hurt either. The ability to make me laugh is a MUST for me:)
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@23uday (2997)
• India
26 Mar 09
Hi friend, I think no one is exactly perfect in this world. The man/woman both can be perfect in some thoughts were same. The man/woman will be always in perfect good thoughts,positive way,positive thinking friendly nature,open mindedness,helping nature,great personality,looking good. have a great day.
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• United States
27 Mar 09
I think perfect is boring. The fact that he/she has flaws makes that person interesting and unique. Open mindedness is also a big thing for me.
@cutieguy (31)
• Philippines
26 Mar 09
personality is important to me - the right attitude and good financial standing. i still look for the neatness, hygiene and the way person moves and talk to others.
• United States
27 Mar 09
hygiene of course is a must! I, unfortunately, am a shopaholic and usually ends spending my paycheck quickly. On the bright side, my bf is good at saving, so hopefully his qualities will rub off on me :)
• Canada
26 Mar 09
I agree that a sense of humor is really important... and it seems that a lot of women feel that way. I don't know about "perfect" but "ideal" for me is someone that is interested in the same things intellectually, someone who is self-assured, kind-hearted, respectful, a good communicator, sorry guys... here comes that dreaded word - romantic, caring ... well, I guess it's easy to make wish lists, right? Ultimately, in a relationship, I really just want to get back at least as much as I give (not in a monetary or materialistic sense... emotionally). I think everyone wants to feel valued.
• United States
27 Mar 09
I agree. The reciprocation of feelings/emotions is important. It's nice to love and be loved in return. That's what I love best about being in a relationship: the feeling that the other person loves you just as much as you love him/her. :D
@lingzi (567)
• China
26 Mar 09
in my view,personality is more important than appearance.if somebody doesn't have good-looking,but if he or she has goodness,good manner,she or he is the perfect in my mind.
• United States
27 Mar 09
For some reason, having a great personality makes that person more physically attractive to me. :)
@didi13 (2926)
• Romania
22 Sep 11
I believe that it is not the essential problem of finding a perfect man or woman, does not exist. And if I found the best in this world, we can not know. The main problem is to build a relationship close to perfection. That is to choose a man's faults (like yours you have it) to really know, to love, to want the same things and start a relationship with the man to build something from all imperfections nice. Together to solve problems that inevitably occur because of imperfections, to do every day to reîndragosteasca to build a life and a relationship with everything want everyone to be there. It's not a compromise, but to decide to do all the best with what you have. You want and ready, and bring out the best in you and the other, until you can not or do not have that.