What Is The First Thing You Look In A Man/Woman
By jessycardy
@jessycardy (684)
Italy
August 26, 2006 2:49pm CST
I'm not talking about the way of thinking or behaving, but just physically... What's the first thing you look in a man/woman? For me it's the whole thing, LOL, but if I had to pick, I'd say the eyes and gaze. They can say a lot and they can be oh so fascinating... What do you think?
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@mtdewgurl74 (18151)
• United States
5 Oct 06
Yep, this is what i choose to. The smile. Just seeing someone smile makes you watch them more because it seems when you are seeing people smile most times it makes you smile and lift a dreary heart
@santwana_veddika (2018)
• India
9 Jan 07
only face ,if he /she is attractive than only go next i mean eye, hair style etc.
@Mayuko (1268)
• United States
29 Jan 12
When I look at a man, I take in everything, but in particular, his face in general, his clothing and hands. His face is too see how good looking he is. Good looks aren't everything, but it sure would be nice to have 
I look at his clothes not for fashion, but to see how he presents himself. A man who looks sloppy and like he picked his clothes out of his dirty hamper is a huge turn off. I'm not saying he has to look fancy or trendy, but just put together.
And the hands for a couple of reasons. First off, I just like hands. I know you can't help the way your hands are shaped, but a man with slender hands and fingers is just more appealing to me than a man with big, thick hands and fingers. So first, I look to see if I like his hand shape/structure.
Also, I check if his fingernails are dirty and/or too long (or chewed up). Dirty fingernails are just disgusting. And long fingernails on men disturbs me, I don't know why. (I consider "long" to be when the white of the nails grow out) And biting nails is a gross habit. I don't want to see it, hear it, or have to worry that the person is going to touch me or my clothes with their wet-with-saliva fingers. Not to mention how unsanitary it is....
And finally, I check hands to see if they are hairy. I loathe body hair. So I figure if a man has hairy hands, then the rest of his body is probably just as hairy if not more. (Of course, I'm aware it's possible that his hands could be as smooth as silk and have a hairier chest than Chewbacca, but I just want to check anyway)
I look at his clothes not for fashion, but to see how he presents himself. A man who looks sloppy and like he picked his clothes out of his dirty hamper is a huge turn off. I'm not saying he has to look fancy or trendy, but just put together.
And the hands for a couple of reasons. First off, I just like hands. I know you can't help the way your hands are shaped, but a man with slender hands and fingers is just more appealing to me than a man with big, thick hands and fingers. So first, I look to see if I like his hand shape/structure.
Also, I check if his fingernails are dirty and/or too long (or chewed up). Dirty fingernails are just disgusting. And long fingernails on men disturbs me, I don't know why. (I consider "long" to be when the white of the nails grow out) And biting nails is a gross habit. I don't want to see it, hear it, or have to worry that the person is going to touch me or my clothes with their wet-with-saliva fingers. Not to mention how unsanitary it is....
And finally, I check hands to see if they are hairy. I loathe body hair. So I figure if a man has hairy hands, then the rest of his body is probably just as hairy if not more. (Of course, I'm aware it's possible that his hands could be as smooth as silk and have a hairier chest than Chewbacca, but I just want to check anyway)
@pinklush1987 (15)
• Philippines
6 Jan 07
yeah i agree in the eyes coz i really believe the eyes is the door to the persons soul u'll know if he/she has a good or bad intention.
