Does your Father Beats or Punish you NOW, if you made a Mistake?

My father punish now if i made a mistake. - Does your father punish you if you made a mistake in 20's.My father does and will make me understand about that after.
India
March 26, 2009 4:03pm CST
My father still will punish me in my 20's if i made a mistake but he will make me understand after what wrong i have done.I really thankful to god to born to my father.He is ahead to me every where and in every matters in my life till now and i pray god in the future too.So do your father punish you if you made a mistake now?
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@ds6413 (2070)
• United States
26 Mar 09
No, I am an adult. He rarely punished me when I was a kid, all he had to do was clear his throat and I knew I was pushing his patience with me.
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• India
27 Mar 09
okay fine and no father will punish his/her son/daughter if they are adults dear i think.Because we will be in a age where we can get to know what is wrong and right.So many won't punish but make some indications like giving precautions before we do wrong.I am very much thankful to GOD that he is giving good parents to everybody.
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@rashmie (947)
• United Arab Emirates
26 Mar 09
You have got a wonderful father as me....however, he never punished me, he usually scolds me furiously. Whatever be the mode of conveying his desire..parents are the best friends, tutors and motivators for us..they can never do any harm to their off springs...
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• India
27 Mar 09
Exactly rashmi you are absolutely correct and i love my father in that manner because he will punish or scolds me and he will let me know why he did that and if i think in my father point of view it will be correct scolding me.i am very much proud that i am son of my father and now my aim is my father should be proud to say that he is father of me in the society and i will try for that at my level best and i need you guys suggestions and support dear.
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@aweins (4198)
• India
31 Mar 09
hi sweetychandu7, my dear freind, you have a wonderful father i think you admire him the most. i am also having a wonderful father but he neve punished me . i am in my twenties but i am mother of one who has completed her one just now. he never scolded me but he always told me what is right and whet not. till today be what happens and what situation comes he is always there for me. he loves me and my baby a lot. he is very protective, but i dont think he is of the nature to punish the child . he makes the child understand that what he or she is doing or has done is wrong and should not repeat. one should have his or her principles on which they should follow and live. i love him and miss him a lot. he came to my baby's first birthday and went a few days back.
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• India
31 Mar 09
Oh really! Its good to hear that your father loves you and your baby and great to hear that you are having a baby of age 1.Okay kool and i think you are enjoying a lot with your kid right! Go ahead and please take care of your father who is far away from you and who always thinks about you dear.My father loves me a lot and i love him too and he is the one for my role model and i know i can't be like him ever as he is unique for me dear.Keep smiling and enjoying with your kid.Take care of your baby.happy myloting.
• Malaysia
26 Mar 09
i never get beatten by my father or mother since i was little until now. my parents will ask me to do everything according what they want me to do. i have to ask them for everything and sometimes being accompany by them if i was staying outsite my hometown.they still treating me like i was 7...it doesnt really matter to me.well, i think your father really loves you and want whats best for you...=)
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• India
27 Mar 09
yes dear friend and you are very much happiest person to your parents that you are not get beaten from them till now.Thats rare actually and i am very happy you got a such a great parents who understands your situation and makes easier for you to get through it.Anyways nice hearing about your father from you dear and keep helping them and keep thanking god for giving them and make happy with them.
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• United States
26 Mar 09
even though im still living at home, my parents really do not punish me anymore. as a kid, i was punished a lot and beat sometimes, but now if i mess up, i dont think they have the energy or they think that i should be a better person and fix it myself. their motto was, you burn your own bridges and fix it yourself. this is after they punished me of course!
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• India
27 Mar 09
hahha thats funny tag line but it contains lot of experience and reason as well.My father punishes me if i have done any big mistake and i will get solution later from him for that mistake.i am punished many times by my father and i think they are like blessings to me as now i am enough to get a job and now in a position to tell others what is good and bad in any matter and this is all because of parents and mainly father who played a vital role in my life.
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• India
30 Mar 09
Okay dear i got to know and now i am not getting punished as i am far away from them actually.And i am in a position to get know what is right and wrong dear and thanks for keeping responses to my topics dear.keeps smiling and happy mylotting dear jlredike friend.
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• United States
27 Mar 09
absolutely, its all about how the way you were brought up. if parents never taught you how to learn from your mistakes (punishing you for them because they are wrong), how would you know?
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• Philippines
31 Mar 09
My father never punished my brother and I when we were younger, and I don't think he will now that we're all of age. At home he's the more diplomatic one. He's the one who will just talk to you and make you realize the possible consequences that you'll face if you do certain things that are not good or if you misbehave. He's the one who never raises the tone of his voice at you unless you do that to him (in my case, I never did). That's how he raised and disciplines us.. With my mom, now that's a different kind of story.. ^_^
• India
31 Mar 09
Okay its cool and good that your father is very convinced and good person and have a lot of patience to say and explain everything to you and your brother.You are very lucky that god gave you good and great father and mother.So keep following his words as they will leads to good position in your future and in your society and keep smiling and have happy mylotting.
@ajithlal (14716)
• India
31 Mar 09
My parents used to beat me when I was a child and they don't beat me now a days since I am adult. Most times they will make me understand why they are punishing me. Even as a adult, if I make a mistake they will say I have made a mistake and make me understand what types of mistakes I have made. I am also happy to be born to my parents.
• India
31 Mar 09
Wow thats what exactly happend in my life too ajith and i too beat by my parents in my childhood and now they are making me understand about the mistakes i am doing so that i will not repeat them again dear.So we too got good parents its nothing that others are bad,i'm just saying that similar minded parents thats it! hehehe.keep smiling dear and happy mylotting.
• China
30 Mar 09
No,because I'm an adult and they give much freedom to me.They also trust me although I made a mistake.If they were angry,They just blame me and never punish me.
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• India
30 Mar 09
Okay and you got good parents dear and please don't make them feel and don't make them blame about your mistakes and make them understand why you did that so that they will get to know.As there will be none who will do any mistakes in this world dear.And keep smiling dear and keep commenting my topics and happy mylotting.