I Can't Identify My Girlfriend!!

@Eweniks (361)
Nigeria
March 26, 2009 4:16pm CST
Few months ago, as I was taking a stroll along the steet, I met a girl,Linda walking in the opposite direction. I stoped her and we bagan a chat. After everything, I started a relationship with her. We arranged to be meeting at a retaurant in the evenings. Our love developed rapidly as the day passes. One afternoon, as I was returning from work, I saw a gilrl, exactly my Linda siting on a man's laps under an umbrella beside a sweeming pool. I stoped and called Linda! she did not respond. I walked across so that she can see me very well, yet there was no sign that she knew me. I went out with anoyance to linda's house. My intention was to tell her people what has just happed. Immediately I got there and pressed the bell, it was Linda that came to open the door. "Honey, you look worried, anything the matter? she asked". Nothing! I replied. She offered me a sit. Now I told her what I saw beside the sweeming pool. She now told me "that was my twin sister, lilian". Since then, I find it difficult to identify between linda and lilian. Sometimes if I see lilian with her boyrfiend, I will feel jealous thinking it's my linda. This feelings makes me uncomfortable with the relationship. Please, advice me on how to move on with the relationship.
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6 responses
• United States
26 Mar 09
i have been involved in this kind of relationship before and to tell you the worst, they never told me about it until the day we wanted to make love, she then told me. at first i doubted until she called her sister to come and that was it. real and true... i had to identify her with something from that day on... its really funny though but i guess its an experience...
@Eweniks (361)
• Nigeria
26 Mar 09
It's really an experience. Thanks for your response.
• Jamaica
3 Apr 09
i think that if you trust Linda and if Linda is trust worthy you have nothing to worry about. but i think most of all you need to accept the situation and develop strategies to cope with it. for example you could try as much as possible to get to know Linda so much so that you do not confuse her with her twin, i fu do that u r on Ur way to a fulfilling relationship.
• United States
26 Mar 09
twins - Twins I would get confused too!
AWWWWWW your poor thing. This would be just awful. This is something that you are just going to have to deal with. Maybe if all 4 of you would go out on a date or something this would help. You would be surprised. I would give it a try.It sounds like you guys really care for each other so this is something that you will have to learn to deal with or it will only cause heart ache.
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
28 Mar 09
I thought you were married and suspended your wife for a year!
@yspring (272)
• China
27 Mar 09
so you should know more about your gf,make her unique for you to see her..maybe some unique dress,wearing,try all you can think to make this easily,,good luck for you,,
@la_chique (1498)
26 Mar 09
hahaha, I'm sorry but I just find it really funny. I was at the gym with my bf a couple of years ago. He messes around all the time and thinks its funny to swim underwater and sneak up behind me and pinch be on my back side. He went to do this one time and when he surfaced, it wasnt me and it was just a woman with the same kind of build as me and the same coloured bikini. I was over in the jacuzzi laughing my head off. He was so embarrassed. Anyway, I know that doesnt help your dilemma but I think its a funny story and hopefully it made you chuckle :)