why u have to think of others wen u love ur love truely
By Kunalpatel
@Kunalpatel (84)
India
March 27, 2009 1:43pm CST
ya it happens... u see most of love stories.., i specially want to ask girls why it happens, when u love someone truly and want someone truly why u stop at ur family and others... ya when it comes to choose from ur love and family members and sometimes ur social cirlce, some does not choose love... while on the other side when a boy start loving someone truly he fights against his family for her.. can u tell me does girls really want love? ya once someone told me that ur wife will answer u that how much she loves u.. but i think she may love me but because she is my wife... not because she loves me..? what u guys say.. no i really want to know ur opinions .. ya i m stuck... someone is saying me that she really loves me and she loves me more than i love her.. but when it comes to her family she stops and says that she cant love me, she cant leave her family, she cant go against her family, even i said that just give me time to convince everyone.., she thinks it will damage their family reputation that she is in love with someone... i am relly stuck..
1 response
@wolfen13 (33)
• United States
27 Mar 09
Personally, as a girl, I think its very hard to choose love over family. If my family wasn't there for me I don't know what I would do. and Love while it can be strong doesn't provide the same things that family can. Especially to a female. I mean a husband can't give motherly advice. Think about this. If your girl and you get married and have children, and you've pushed her family away and she's abandonned them for you. Who is it that she is to turn to ask questions on raising that baby. I mean doctors of course can tell you some things, but mothers have special importance, they tell you when to not freak out with the baby and when its time to go to the ER. I think in all girls minds they fear loosing their families more because we rely onthem. They protect us. Wipe away our tears. and give us advice. Love, true and strong love can last through a little bit of trouble with the "family". You have to build a relationship with them, just like you have with your girl. They aren't going to just openly trust you, not with something as precious as their child.
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