heart break
By savypat
@savypat (20216)
United States
March 27, 2009 3:15pm CST
I was looking back and remembering lost love and heart break, I have had both of these and even after all these years 40 plus. It still hurts, when you are young and this happens the hurt is so bad that you cannot help but remember. This formed my whole life, it made me never want to feel that much again and I never have. But I have a long good marriage and it was a much better relationship then if I had continued any of the ones I lost. Has this happened to you and do you realize it was a blessing in disguise? If you are going through one of these relationships, stop for a moment and consider that there are lessons to be learned and that with time the pain will lessen. Blessings
3 responses
@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
28 Mar 09
Hey pat~ You are so right. There are always lessons to be
learned. No matter how much pain and heartache we go through
there is always a lesson there to be learned. An yes, I to
have gone through those types of relationships. And it has
closed my heart a bit so that I will never have to feel that
type of pain again. Granted, I was young and didn't really
know what I know now, but I will never open myself up the
way that I did then and I will never let anyone hurt me the
way that I have been hurt in the past.
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@dorisday1971 (5657)
• Philippines
27 Mar 09
I am always praying that me and my husband will be blessed with happy life till the end. There are many lessons that I have gained from my seven year marriage and it's helping me to become better in terms of handling our marriage and family.
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@silvercoin (2101)
• Lithuania
28 Mar 09
I was madly in love with boy band singer when I was 15.So many girls wanted him and I thought I was blessed to be with him.It was my first love,extremely romantic and there's one thing that still hurts:I wanted him to be my first man, but he refused saying I was too young for him.He sang me, he gave me flowers, he wrote love letters and he refused to be my man!He said I would feel dirty and disgusted.Now I understand that he really cared for me.He saw I was just a child.Now he's a married man, has two little twin girls.He left the stage and he doesn't sing any more.I get sentimental when I think about our romantic moments together.I still have a place for him in my heart.
