recently,there have been very rich boy to express love to me.but ,I can not do?

China
March 30, 2009 8:44am CST
I would like to refuse him,but my friends said that I was silly,you can tell me if I was sily? I really do not like him.can you help me?
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5 responses
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
31 Mar 09
you are right...turn him down. You don't want to be with someone simply for money,i can tell by your post. I have a guy friend that is very rich and he knows that I would not ask for a dime from him...just would not. I happen to love him for the person that he is. Likewise I would not accept a friendship based on their wealth.
• China
31 Mar 09
thank you ,what you said is very good.
@smacksman (6053)
30 Mar 09
That happened to a good friend of mine. She quite liked him but was not in love. Anyway, they lived together for a while and she had a sweet baby. However, he was 'married' to his work and they sort of drifted apart and hardly meet now. But he was a responsible father and makes sure they are not short of money. So maybe it is better to be rich and unhappy as it is to be poor and unhappy!
• China
31 Mar 09
What you siad make me food for thought.thank you for you answers.I want to tell you that your friend is lucky,me and her but just the opposite.thank you all the same.
@rymebristol (1808)
• Philippines
8 Apr 09
it was not a silly thing. even though the guy is the richest in the world, if you really don't feel anything about then why make it a big deal. your friends thinks that its he's a "BIG FISH" that you should not let go.
@aisaellis22 (6445)
• United States
31 Mar 09
Hello kanghuan33! I don't think you're being silly. If you really don't like the person, the don't force yourself just because he is rich. Money won't make you happy but I am not saying that marry a man who can't support you. But what I'm saying is that don't force yourself to love that person because in the end, you will be the one to suffer.
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
29 Aug 10
Love is a great feeling which has to be expressed. If you find it true, never fail to convey, thats a tribute to the love in real.