dear friends, i just cannot

Hi ya cynthiann This has happened to me a couple of times recently and I have had no choice but to delete the email and not respond to the discussions of my friends. Some of the time it is too late to respond as it has become irrelivant. I do try to respond to all my friends discussions but sometimes it is just impossible especially if I have been away. I won't be around much for the next two weeks as it is the Easter break here and I shall be off to Cornwall again. Have got to get my pasty fix!! LOL. I would never be offended if you didn't respond to any of my discussions as I would think that you were either too busy to respond or had nothing to add to the discussion, both of which are fine by me!

I answer post that interest me only I don't have time to answer everyone but I do my best to answer everyone who answer my discussions.

that is okay with me, I haven't done a post, I rarely do posts now, I just answer everybody else's lol. I just am so overwhelmed with mylot too. Sometimes my health stops me from being as active as I would like to be as well.

I do feel the same way as you do. There are so many posts I want to answer, but I do not have the time. I try to comment on my unresolved discussions, but even then it takes some time. As for the other posts that others start who return my comment, well it seems there is a couple who make it hard for everyone else, by forcing people to agree with them. So now for a time, I have to turn off the notify, and go through the process of entering the url where I can go back and respond to the comment in my notepad, and go back then, thus avoiding any that will get a rant back from those who want everyone to agree with them and say that they are better and know more then God. I sure hate people who make it hard for everyone else. And I hate it when I want to respond to a discussion and cannot.

Yep. I currently have 200 mylot notifications in my inbox. I'll go through every one, but it will take me a long time.

I'm still catching up and I may never get there. But don't worry about me making payout. I didn't make it last month so I didn't have to work very hard this month to get there!

yes, i know what u mean. that just shows you are popular. do what u have to do. i'm sure everyone will undersatnd.

yes me to. im not going to make payout. im the gal thats been sick the whole last week and starting this week. just when things were going so well here to and im only a couple dollars away

HI Cynthiann: Don't over stress about those posts, you can only do what you can do in a day's time; At least that's all I can do in a days time, not much lately (G)!! I'm sure they will understand there are just times that we all have other thing to take care and or do in our busy hectic days; Hang in there dear friend;

That's alright, just answer what you can. I am not overwhelmed with the amount of posts to answer, that much better we have so many topics to choose from. I am 3 dollars short to payout but am still trying my best to lessen it down. I don't think I can make it to payout this month except if I can avail a task and have a 3 dollar rewards. Anything can happen however, nothing is impossible. So grateful I am if I'll be able to make it.

Hi, I dont think that you have to answer all the posts from your friends as at times you may not be in a mood to do so. Moreover I know that you do respond to all the discussions I had started and I really thank you so much for it. What I just trying to say is dont stress yourself out, take care dear friend.

I know how you feel. I find it hard to keep up with everyone sometimes. I sometimes cant reply to each response I get in a discussion. Its just really hard to keep up with all of it. But I do want to respond to everyone!

I don't feel very overwhelmed. I just feel that I need to post more. I'm not getting enough each day.

Hi,take it easy. I only had 10 posts yesterday.It takes me a lot time though.I read every post in each discussion and then respond.I don't know whether I will be overhelmed.But I really expect that.Haha..

yes, most certainly many times. What I do is take it into sections. I work on what I can handle and then go away for awhile. When I come back I will do more and so forth and so on. Once I start going through them I find that some of them I just delete as I have nothing that I can say for that discussion. If I just take them one at a time and do what I can I find it not so over whelming.

Hi cyn, I used to get 100 notifications each day but not this time anymore! I am thinking only few of my friends are online this time!

I use to worry more about answering post on Mylot, but I don't really stress about it that much any more. I always want Mylot to be fun for me and not a job that I have to do. It is nice to be able to come here and relax.

I have hardly gotten any email notifications today, so I am not feeling overwhelmed today at all. I am not on the hunt for discussions to respond to. I already made payout anyway. Hope your day is gone well today. Try to not let your busy day stress you out.

I have days like that too. I just figure once in a while I will have to ignore my friends and deal with real life.

Hey cynthiann! You don't need to stress over this! If people don't understand that you have 2 jobs and a family to take care of then that's too bad! I have no idea how you have any time to breathe let alone post on here ever! With all that you have to do I can't understand how you even have time to sign on here! Don't worry about this place! Go do your real life! At least you have one, not like some of us! I love you girlfriend and God Bless you and yours! Love, Opal/Leslie