sometimes a bad listener

@willy6 (498)
Jamaica
March 30, 2009 7:28pm CST
A lot of time I am conversing with people, and because I am ancious to give my opinion I dont listen carefull to what they are saying, and I respond in a way that doesnt correspond what they are saying. So it is very important to listen and dont be too ancious to respond. Because you can say the wrong things and regret it. Let us think before we speak and listen careful before we do.
2 responses
@laedyan (189)
• Philippines
31 Mar 09
Hello there willy6. I have also similar experiences like yours. I didn't listen to the story carefully and analyzed it before speaking and giving her my opinion. The next thing i knew, she was staring at me with a question mark and ask the relevance of the words that i told her. It was then that i realized that i made the wrong response. Well, i guess its a lesson for us so that next time, we will be able to think first and understand before speaking since sometimes, it leads to misunderstanding.
• Philippines
31 Mar 09
yeah.. your right.. we should think and listen before we speak.. because we cannot turn back times.. whatever words we said had been said and we cannot change it no matter how much we want..