Dating Advice: The "Sandwich" and The "Caviar"

@inkyuboz (1366)
Mandaluyong City, Philippines
March 30, 2009 9:00pm CST
This is a serious question actually: If you were to choose between the "sandwich" (being the person you are most comfortable with and very responsible to boot but has a really boring personality and is just plain) OR the "caviar" (the exciting gorgeous person, the one who makes your life more colorful but takes too much risks and is too wild for your taste)... Which will you choose? The boringly traditional "sandwich" or the exotic dangerous "caviar"?
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@coldmoon (1092)
• France
31 Mar 09
Sandwich is boring, it's cheap and you can have it every day. Caviar tastes better, and even if you have enough money for it, it's not for your health when you have it regularly. Caviar is not wild for my taste, but I'd only choos it if I was spending the last days of my life.
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@inkyuboz (1366)
• Mandaluyong City, Philippines
31 Mar 09
(laughs) I think you may have misunderstood my question... Try reading it again. *wink* But heck, I agree with you, Sandwiches are sooo convenient.
@coldmoon (1092)
• France
31 Mar 09
I don't think that I misundetstood what you meant. But I think only you guys who sort others that way.
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@inkyuboz (1366)
• Mandaluyong City, Philippines
31 Mar 09
Oh no, what I meant is were you really talking about food items or the people I've described? I may have been the one who misunderstood after all.
@Opal26 (17686)
• United States
31 Mar 09
Where do you come up with these topics! Let me into your brain for a few minutes! I would pick the sandwich! I have learned after many years of chasing the caviar that it is a total waste of time! You will be happier with a sandwich in the end and alot safer! Take it from someone who has definitely been there done that and more!
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@inkyuboz (1366)
• Mandaluyong City, Philippines
31 Mar 09
Yeah, and you'll learn to appreciate the sandwich in the end too. Even with a really really good sandwich, some people crave for a caviar every now and then, but I guess they're just weak-willed or malcontent. Thanks a lot for responding Opal! And regarding how I come up with my topics: I don't know how I come up with my topics really. I just post what's on my mind. (plus I'm a bit on the crazy side of the fence. lol)
@laydee (12811)
• Philippines
31 Mar 09
I'd go for the sandwich. It may be boring but at least it's REAL. The Caviar is overly pretentious, and these are the people who'd surely leave you when the going gets tough. The Caviar is for those people who just want fun, or one night stands, it's not for long term. Regardless how much you think about life, it's not always caviar, and neither is the sandwich always a sandwich, there will always be moments when we are sometimes the caviar, and sometimes the sandwich.
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@inkyuboz (1366)
• Mandaluyong City, Philippines
31 Mar 09
Nice answer! I do believe the "Caviar" would be equal parts Heaven and Hell. While the "Sandwich" may be the middle ground (whatever that is). :) I'm happy that you actually took time to answer my silly (yet serious!) question. Thanks for responding.
@modstar (9608)
• Philippines
3 Apr 09
That's pretty tough. I have always wanted to be comfortable with my date at the same time i want someone wild. How about a sandwich with caviar filling? Lol! If i really have to choose, sandwich. I have had a lot of caviar before and i'm sick of it.