Would you change your appearance just to please your bf/gf/husband/wife?
By n30wing
@n30wing (4767)
Philippines
10 responses
@nibekagetro (17)
• Philippines
31 Mar 09
Not really change. But improve your appearance. You can have it not just by undergoing plastic surgery. Good grooming is a must. Try to give more care on your physical appearance. If she/he loves you, he will accept you as you are whether your appearance is bad or good.
@susiehappy (135)
• China
10 Apr 09
A certain extent,I will change my appearance to please my hubby,like length of hair,style of clothing.For the basic appearance features,I don't change it for hubby's pleasant.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
11 Apr 09
Same with me susiehappy I can go to a certain extent, like cutting my hair, having a a facial, and cleaning my nails, but for a surgery it's a big no way. If she loves me, love me for what I am and it should be completely. Anyway have a nice day to you!
@kprofgames (3091)
• United States
7 Apr 09
You said it! If you fall in love with a person, then why do they need changing???? I understand if a person wants to "fix" something on themselves for themselves, but just to please another - sorry, I don't think so.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
10 Apr 09
I like that! Really true that if your partner really loves you she/he wont change anything in your appearance.Maybe it's just fine if your doing it for your self. Like just have a hair cut, a facial, and nail cleaning. But surgery it's a big no no for me. It's love me the way I am! Anyway have a nice day to you!
@froggieslover (3069)
• United States
3 Apr 09
I fully believe that the way God created you is the way you should be. If someone isn't happy with the way you look they can look the other way. The only reason I think plastic surgery should used is if it is health related. Such things as gastric bypass..but not gastric bypass for beauty reasons.
I fully agree with what you said love me for me or not at all!!!
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
3 Apr 09
You said that right froggieslover, what God created you is the way you should be. I't's a big big no no for a plastic surgery. I am happy for what I am. Well I can have a hair cut, a facial, and my nails to be clean. Well it's always for me love me for what I am not for what you want me to be. Have a nice day to you!
@sophie_dfuss (2365)
• Philippines
31 Mar 09
No, I will never have a plastic surgery ever.
I love myself and my bf loves me as I am so I don't need to undergo any surgery 
@mods196621 (3652)
• Philippines
31 Mar 09
I agree with you my friend, I don't want to change my face if ever just to please him for i know that when we saw each other he loves me for who I am not my appearance or being pretty before. Some of my friends told me to change my hairstyle and looks just for my husband. One day I told him but he refuse me to do that changes for money matter, i know. Because as we see we are now in global crisis. Even there is no global crisis our life was always in financial crisis because our children are all studying in private and my elder is in college right now. Well friend the true love for i know is not relying on material and physical aspects.
Godbless you friend!
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
3 Apr 09
Hi mods, for me it's always accept me for what I am. Anyway beauty fades but not deep inside you your character. Anyway I know she love me for what I am. But I can cut my hair twice a month, have my nail clean, and have a facial, but not plastic surgery it's a big no no for me. Anyway have a nice day to you!
@eselmaro (208)
• Philippines
31 Mar 09
Some says let us enjoy what was given to us by God. After all it is not the only thing to be count with when it comes to measurement of beauty. On the other hand, I don't think that having a surgery would be bad. If it is for the sake of your loveone's and of course your dearest career, the why not? As long as you are not hurting anyone and you have a lot of money to spend. Thank you and have a good day!
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
3 Apr 09
Well what God given me I wont change it having a plastic surgery is not in my priorities. Well I can have my hair cut done twice a month, facial may do, a clean nails may do also, but it's really loving me for what I am that counts a lot! Anyway have a nice day to you!
@Gladys22 (416)
• Philippines
8 Apr 09
same as yours.. Yes your Probably right, i believe on it. cause If someones loves you. he/ she loves you for what you are.. not only for your phisical Appearance but because he loves you more than anything else. once again thank you for your disccusion.. God bless!!
