For the girls....

Philippines
April 1, 2009 8:15am CST
I have read a thread from a different site, a man asking the girls on how should they feel about their x-boyfriend. Will they still miss their kisses, hugs, sweet moment... even those Married or with current BF what will you fell? It is quite intriguing? how about you girls? share something for this one? I have read a lot of funny comments and I want to try it here! anyway I can't share something for this one since I'm so in love with my 1st and hoping to be the last beau...
12 responses
@gracypure (529)
• Philippines
2 Apr 09
I had an ex-boyfriend for three years and its been ten years already since we broke up because of third party on my side. I know this sounds so unfair to the father of my kids but really that ex presence is with me almost everyday. i am not sure if i am still in love with him or i am just having a remorse for what i did to him 10 years ago. Or because the father of my kids is completely not my match. But am trying love this man again for the sake of our kids.
• Philippines
2 Apr 09
I guess loving him just for the sake of your kids is not enough reason for you to stay attached with whom you are with now... I'm not telling you to forget him or have a break up with him... NO I'm not... don't get me wrong... It's just that just want you to realize that loving someone doesn't forcing oneself to love the other.. it easily come... you suddenly feel it... it's like magic... :) thanks for dropping..... happy mylotting and wishing you the best...
• Philippines
6 Apr 09
Thank you for your concern, i really appreciated it. I don't want a broken family, i don't like my kids separate each other when they are growing. Now i try to have much patience for him so we will not end up again to a terrible fight that might cause my kids in having trauma. I really need to pray, thanks again for the good wished.
@scgodess (105)
• United States
2 Apr 09
My exes are my exes for a reason. I have a wonderful husband now though and we're known each other since childhood. Hopefully nothing will ever happen there.
• Philippines
2 Apr 09
Wow that's great!!! Hope you could be happier... I'm so happy for you!!! happy mylotting... :) thanks for the response!!!!
• China
2 Apr 09
Really a happily family...
@coldmoon (1088)
• France
1 Apr 09
I feel nothing about my ex now, he was a mean cheater and I deleted his file in my memory. Of course, there're still some traces, for example what we did together, but I think about them as events rather than my own experiences, i.e just like the scences in a movie that I've watched, but have not played any role.
@coldmoon (1088)
• France
2 Apr 09
I've found him, thanks
• Philippines
2 Apr 09
:)... hhhhhaaaaa!!! :) its quite serious... I mentally blocked.... will anyway thanks for sharing that experience or yours.... happy mylotting and hope you will find the right one... :)
@cryw0lf (1302)
• United Kingdom
1 Apr 09
Around about two months ago, my year and a half relationship ended. I'm still completely not over it. As one of the women above said, naturally, i am also jealous at the fact he is picking up drunk women and taking them home. You miss the good parts, but usually we're rather thankful for the bad parts being gone. From time to time i keep wishing he was still in a relationship with me, but at the end of the day, theres nothing i can do about it is there. However as for other relationships, i don't think i'd much miss his hugs / kisses etc.
• Philippines
2 Apr 09
I'm just thinking right now.... what if I'll lost my bf... we've been together for almost 6years... we already have plans but the problem is where still too young... his 21 and I'm 20... we really love each other... I just pray it will not end that way...
• Philippines
2 Apr 09
thanks by the way and happy mylotting...
@Jezebella (1446)
• United States
1 Apr 09
I am dating someone now after two other relationships and I have to admit I just found out one man I dated is in a relationship and I got very jealous because it wasn't me and I wasin love with him a great deal, and I guess to an extent I am still very much in love with him. In my opinion when you love someone it will never go a way even if you are with someone new.
• Philippines
2 Apr 09
hello jezebella... what I have learn from my friend is that If you love someone seriously then that love will really last long... and that's what i also learn from you... and of course base on experience...
• Philippines
2 Apr 09
happy mylotting by the way.... :)
@Gladys22 (416)
• Philippines
2 Apr 09
i don't missed my ex cause it already fade away in my memories though haved a little but it's not enough by feeling i miss him but it's not. i realize only infatuation i feel for him not love. me and my ex- bf didn't have a kiss before only hug lol.
• Philippines
2 Apr 09
that's great Gladys22!!! :) happy mylotting and thanks for dropping by...
• Philippines
2 Apr 09
I don't miss my ex-boyfriends neither their kisses or what so ever. I don't even think of them these days though I have one ex-bf (e separated 9 years ago) who was stalking me last year over the phone... he's telling me that he misses me blah, blah, blah but I don't believe him so I change my mobile number. When a relationship is over, its really over for me and there's no turning back. Life goes on so we have to move on in the same time. What matters to me most is my current bf and nobody else
• Philippines
2 Apr 09
You do the right thing sophie_dfuss!!! (changing your number) not to intrude you but I guess somehow if someones exies done nothing wrong with her/him after ending up once love affair, a new relationship will still be there... FRIENDSHIP... but anyway if he did(done something wrong) then better forget him/her... ;) happy my lotting.... thank you...
@mkchaves (530)
• Canada
2 Apr 09
hmmm.my current bf is my firs everything. :) but i've had exes before him. But no kiss, no hugs, sweet moments - well.. nothing like that since i was too young, i mean, i dont get out because i was embarrassed that someone will see me in the mall with someone. lol. so.. most of the memories are just at text and at school. nothing big to share. Oh.. there was this one time, where a former bf cheated on me and the girl he two timed me with went into our classroom to have a "discussion" with me. and i just said, "He's all yours, he's not that interesting anyway" LOL.. i was 17 then.. :)
• Philippines
2 Apr 09
That's right girl... ;) good luck with you and your current boyfriend, who is your everything.... I wish the both of you Good Luck!!! thanks for the responce happy mylotting and God Bless yha....
@panmin (90)
• China
2 Apr 09
hey,whatever you did and whenever there was somwthing in your mind,forget it! all the moment related to you and your x-boyfriend had passed. why people like to look back? maybe i am too serious not to look back to one's old memories. indeed,there is happy time we need to think of,but you can choose.if you have a boy friend,just put yourself into his shoes,how would he think of you if you still missing your x-boyfriend. it unfair!and you do not want him to think of his x-girlfriend while together with you,right?so,i take it for granted that if he becomes your x-boyfriend,then actually let go!
• Philippines
2 Apr 09
Your right panmin! it's so unfair with the other side... :) thanks for the response... happy mylotting
@thina12 (94)
• Philippines
2 Apr 09
It depends on how long you have been in a relationship.In my case,i have to forget all of the memories we had shared,because im married now.
• Philippines
2 Apr 09
Of course you should thina, and that's one thing I do appreciate in you... hope everyone will be as loyal as you.... thanks for dropping... ;) happy mylotting...
@vivianchen (2646)
• China
2 Apr 09
Hi Angel, I think i will still missed the sweet moments that i had with my X-BF, sometimes i even compare the one i loved one with my X when we first be together, but as time goes back, slowly and slowing, i am not thinking of my X that much, sometimes, the sweet moments or the funny things wills still rise in my brain, but i know, he is not mine anymore, i got to let go. So, that's about my story.
• Philippines
2 Apr 09
hello vivianchen! I'm glad you slowly forget him(the Ex-one ;) )... It's unfair for the one your are with currently. wishing the both(the new one ;) and you) of you Good Luck!! happy mylotting...
@am021606 (11)
• Philippines
2 Apr 09
hi there, i had 3 exes, the first is someone my friends ask me to say yes,without my friends, he will never be my first, im just infatuated with him, thats all. so i dont miss him at all. the second? well, he is my first love, but what do you know? i still felt bitter because he's a certified womanizer, and i thought that time i was his only girl, but no, there's another one. and i hate him for that, that's all i can remember about him.by the way, when i learned that he's seing that other girl i broke up with him already,love is not enough when my trust is broken. the third? he makes me feel special and the marrying kind, i felt that he loves me so much, but then, he is asking for something i can't give coz i was too young then,well until now, im still young for those things. and that's the reason why i broke up with him.he's demanding and it suffocates me, until i realized, im not inlove with him anymore. i dont miss my exes at all, i realized im just infatuated with them. im in a relationship where in, i love him so much, the love i have for him is enough for me to not miss my exes.
• Philippines
2 Apr 09
good for you am021606... :) just always think positive... let the past be a past as what other says... they were not worth remembered ;)