Recovery of Death

United States
April 1, 2009 2:07pm CST
My friend that i had been friends for had died about 3 years ago, i recently found out by my sister that i had changed, i really dont believe her, but i cant stop thinking about it, are there ways to tell if you have changed as a person because of the death, or other factors? because i dont like who i am these days, and if it is because of the death, i wonder what i must do to be able to change back, if i can at all, i really am conserned for my well being.
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arkansos
@arkansos (545)
• India
4 Apr 09
If you changed w/o noticing, it was because you wanted to change. Maybe you're living in mild denial. it would be better if you described in what ways you have changed...DEpends on whether the change is gud or bad
sdk_mail
@sdk_mail (19)
• United States
4 Apr 09
My sister said that i have become a severely lonely, and depressing person, and i have noticed that i really haven't been able to make any friends since then
arkansos
@arkansos (545)
• India
4 Apr 09
That change is bad. You need to rethink your life over. i dun mean it in a rude way. What you need to do is to sit down and ask yourself whether this is the way you want to spend your life: all depressed, without friends and all. Once you do this, list all the changes that have come along in you. I think most of them are there because you are afraid to lose anymore friends, so you don't make anymore friends. Then start to enjoy life...go to a movie with friends. Meet new people, go to discs anything that you otherwise enjoy doing. Depression is just a phase, not change...make it pass
crazyredhead
@crazyredhead (954)
• United States
2 Apr 09
You can't change back, especially if you hadn't realized you'd changed, but you can try to be happy and make yourself a better person.