i'm pregnant... just joking! but why cursed at me???

@alecs76 (657)
Philippines
April 2, 2009 9:29am CST
someone mentioned that she told her boyfriend that she was pregnant and was crying hysterically. her boyfriend tried to calm her and told her that he'll take of her, etc. suddenly she told him that it was just a joke. the boyfriend started cursing her for making that joke. is it that bad that they guy could throw those words on her?
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• United States
3 Apr 09
I don't know about the cusing but he did have a right to be mad. That is not something to joke about with anyone especially the person who would be the father. It is scarey even if they do the right thing and say the right thing it is still a huge change in their life that you are joking about. She probably did not mean anything by it but she needs to be more considerate of his feelings next time she decides to joke around and pick a better subject to joke with.
@laedyan (189)
• Philippines
3 Apr 09
Hello there. When talking about pregnancy while not being married, its not really a good joke for anyone who is in a relationship. She should atleast ask herself first before telling it to her boyfriend because it can have a great impact on the guy. I think also that saying that words to test what will her boyfriend do is not the best idea.
@sanuanu (11235)
• India
3 Apr 09
Being pregnant before marriage in my country is bad. Even having physical relationship is not a good thing in our country. So, if the boy hears that her gf is pregnant then it becomes a great problem as there is no way to encouter but marry or abortion. Both are huge decision for a girls' life. One shuold not make a joke out of that subject!
• India
2 Apr 09
Hmm..i don't think it was only for joke..i guess she was testing her bf..she was trying to figure out wat will he do/react if such a situation would arise.I understand dat practical jokes like this really gets on ur nerves...n d person who faces it..would naturally feel irritated..n would react aggressively.As u haven't mentioned whether he abused her..but if he does it wasn't justified..as he shouldn't make such big fuss about it.i think his reaction was spontaneous n d girl should understand her folly rather dan getting hurt...n both should understand each others mistake.
• United States
2 Apr 09
Being pregnant or not being pregnant isn't a joke that someone should make. I would never tell my boyfriend that unless i really was, i don't want him made at me for any reason and that would be a huge reason to get really mad and do something mean and yell. Being in a relationship is something that you should take serious and hope for the best.
@chimrani (1430)
• India
2 Apr 09
She should not do this type of jokes.It can effect or make your partner anger.This words are not for joke.Yes her boyfriend is right and that is her fault .
• India
2 Apr 09
Hi lotter yeah this is not a matter of joke,that too before marriage at least in our country it isnt and even if married it is related to someones emotion and any joke on emotions is very bad,she should have done that.