Are you a Green-Eyed monstress!

Malaysia
April 4, 2009 8:32am CST
I am quite embarrassed having to say here that I'm a green-eyed monstress! I've always found it difficult to trust my significant other. I've often demanded to know where he is, who he's with and what time he'll be back. I realize how horrible I've been to cope with. I'm beginning to learn the real importance of trust in a relationship.I am aware that not putting a trust in your relationship will only bring unnecessary worries and stress which eventually might kill the joy of a relationship. Can you trust your significant other?
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5 responses
@kawalnarang (1095)
• Trinidad And Tobago
4 Apr 09
I used to be just like u ,, about 5 years ago I changed my ways,,stopped asking her were she was,, and life is better,, I can do my day work with more peace,am relaxed going out and returning ,,wish u Best
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• Malaysia
4 Apr 09
Great..you're a changed man. It will be more peaceful that way. Give her freedom of choice.
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
5 Apr 09
Mutual Trust between two partners is key to their successful married life. If one cannot trust the other one wholeheartedly then the life will not run smoothly. Mistrust can spoil any kind of well built up relationship. I always trust my other significant and I know it very well that she does not go for any kind of venture without keeping me in picture. I can say that I am not green-eyed monster.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
6 Apr 09
Aleg Many thanks for your kind words. I am delighted.
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• Malaysia
6 Apr 09
Speaking from a matured thinking, you have what it takes to be a perfect partner in life.
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@LittleMel (8742)
• Canada
4 Apr 09
yes I can. no doubt in it. although I don't like it when he spends more money with grocery, buying more than what I wrote on the list. I don't know anything about your SO I won't call you a monster or anything for not trusting him. Some people can fool others easily and no one will notice until it's too late. If you have bad experiences in the past, then it could be your instinct that is telling you not to trust him easily. You will find out sooner or later I guess. but I would say that you can always find balance between not trusting completely and have a good time. there is nothing wrong with both.
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• Malaysia
6 Apr 09
Thank you for your open views on this topic and it is greatly appreciated.
@sanuanu (11235)
• India
4 Apr 09
Is this discussion meant only for ladies? I mean you used the word monstress but not monsters! I think monstress is a feminine of monster, correct me if I was wrong.
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@sanuanu (11235)
• India
5 Apr 09
It will disappoint you. I don't have green eye which means I am not a green eye monster but can I be a black eye monster. Guess, eye color has nothing to do with your character. There are people with lovely blue eye but looking to destry things related with other guys in this world. Don't you think?
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• United States
12 Apr 09
I have never felt the need to be a 'green-eyed monstress' in any of my relationships. With my present boyfriend, I only pretend to distrust him because it is always funny to see his reactions. He is really a faithful and honest person. I know sometimes when we are out, he may glance at another woman. That is the only time I can be this way, but I know that he does not mean to disrespect me. It is just natural for a man to notice women, but I still don't like it.
• Malaysia
14 Apr 09
You're cute. Sometimes it is nice to pretend and be thrilled to see how serious he reacts. Let them have roving eyes sometimes so they can have eyewash.
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