How to avoid unwanted Guests?

India
April 4, 2009 11:12am CST
There are a lot of people unwanted in our life.I feel very angry when some stupid guests come to my home in my week ends or our family is having fun.Is there any way to keep these unwanted Guests out of our life
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6 responses
• Philippines
4 Apr 09
hi there, deepika201.. let's change the scenario. what if you are the one who's an unwanted guest and you don't have a clue? you find out about it only later on. how would you feel?
• India
4 Apr 09
It is true,but I dont agree with your sugession that one should not avoid unwanted guests just for the reason that he/she may also be unwanted by somebody else.
@chimrani (1426)
• India
4 Apr 09
Yes friend there are many unwanted guests.My friends and relatives comes to my home on week ends.I think they come to my home just to know my secrets about online earnings and to play games on my pc.I hate them because they come only for searching my pockets,i just avoid them by telling that my system is effected with virus and i tell my mother to tell them that i gone to some towns. Friend if you want to avoid them just tell them that you are going for shopping or lock your front door,tell them that your father is scolding to you. "Last option tell him not to visit as you not interested "
@magikrose (5429)
• United States
4 Apr 09
Honeslty if you do not want any company and people show up un-announced than the best thing to do is be as polite as you can and tell them that you are having a private family gathering for just your family and dont want to change your plans. IF they insist then you can tell them that if you wanted them there you would havei invited them.
@eshaan (6188)
• India
4 Apr 09
just say that u have som urgent work and that u cant stay long with them, if they are understanding people then they will go by themselves and if you feel that they are not going so easily then make all your family members ready and tell everyone that we all are going out, and lock the home for sometime, then they will have to forcefully leave the home.
• India
4 Apr 09
Hello Deepika. It is very obvious that you don't expect every people at every time. To avoid them,yhe best thing that you can do is,tell tham a lie that you are just going to leave the house for some work or have to go to somebody's place urjently. This could be said if they call you before comming. If not,then also you can say the same thing.
@ag_sekar (112)
• India
4 Apr 09
Well, make them realize that they are no longer welcome. Sometime you need to be rough in order to avoid such people.