My dear girlfriend say goodbye to me

China
April 4, 2009 1:45pm CST
i'm so sad when i heard that i love her so much and i can't believe that because i have no money my god !!! so i drinking a lot of wine why just i have no money you have said to me you will be with me forever and you such love me it's lie???
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21 responses
• India
9 Apr 09
hi, it is very sad one thing i am thinking.... how can compare anyone money and love is it possible. you don't think about her forget all thing about her because she did not love you...
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@ketybhagat (4125)
• India
9 Apr 09
Why people turn to drinks during times of crisis is beyong my understanding. We women face so many emotional problems and if we start drinking, the family has had it. Relax friend. She was not meant for you. And drinking wont help. People who are out for the grabs are not worth crying over. You will see God's hand in this. He has saved you from an emotional disaster, considering you could have got married and had kids etc. Remember, what He does, is all for the best and we in our ignorance cant see this. Trust Him and forget this girl. Somebody loving is waiting for you at this point in time. Good luck.
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@eichs1 (1934)
• Philippines
9 Apr 09
As a song says, "Sometimes love just ain't enough." You really need some money if you want to live independently with someone and to eventually start a family. Love should be the sole reason for one to keep each other. And if you love someone, you really have to do something to provide her needs. So if your girlfriend left you because you are not doing something to prepare for your future family, then you should wake up. However, if your girlfriend left you solely because you can't give her caprices, then good riddance. She's not worth drinking and crying for.
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@doris_wu (27)
• China
5 Apr 09
Hi,there!! It's no a big deal. you would find someone else someday, who might actually like you, not just your background. she left you for money, i think she is not the right person deserve your love.
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4 Apr 09
You can find a better girlfriend than that. If she only wants to be with someone for money than let her go. Find someone who loves you for who you are inside. But I know you must be sad right now. Give it sometime.
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@slothgurl (571)
• Enumclaw, Washington
4 Apr 09
Treat it like a good book you have just finished reading. Remember the good parts, put it on the shelf, and remember there are many more stories for you to read. #:)
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@larish (2193)
• Philippines
25 Apr 09
You'll find someone better but for now, just focus on your job/career. What happens now should be a motivating factor for you be a better person.
2 May 09
very good advice
@orang13 (723)
• Philippines
3 May 09
You're deeply hurt, tsk3x. Money is the most common roots of fights, either in family, friends, career or love. And it seems you are struck by it, I am so sorry for you., I know for sure, you are really hurt, but that doesn't mean that you have to make your life be live by just drinking. It will not solve anything instead it will cause more money lost. So i advice you to struggle more, and be a millionaire someday.. Pretty sure, there will be more girls out there who will cling to you..
@gunjanpri (603)
• India
28 Apr 09
when u are drunk, u can not judge any situation in a right way. At present you might be feeling deserted and cheated, but be at your cool and rethink about everything. Do you really miss a greedy person and want her to cme back? Was she really a greedy person, or her problems has compelled her to do so. It may be that she has not cheated you rather its your misconception or confusion created by some body, that has seperated two of you. Try to reconcile if you feel she was right in her decision and above all respect an individual's right to love or not to love somebody b her own choice. This is my opinion and not meant to hurt you. Please do not feel offended.
@hoghoney (3749)
• United States
27 Apr 09
Yep I hear ya hun...my boyfriend just broke up with me this month because he said that I didnt have a job..well heck I have not worked in two years and we were together for 5 and a half years. But I know his mommy had alot to do with it. Life might seam to be down right now for you but that just means that there are better things to come for you..Good luck and enjoy your life now.
@mjmlagat (3171)
• Philippines
27 Apr 09
Your discussion makes me sad although this had been 4 weeks ago. I hope you're fine now and able to recover of the loss. Well, sometimes there are just good things that never last, whether we like it or not. Don't put the blame on you alone because there are really circumstances beyond our control. I just wish you all the luck and love in the world.
@carolscash (9498)
• United States
26 Apr 09
If she left you because of money, then I say that you probably shouldn't be too upset as she is not worth worrying about. I hope that you feel better about all of this soon.
• India
25 Apr 09
The girl does not deserve to be your girl friend as she wanted money not love. You need to lift yourself up and look towards the brighter side of life. try to spend some of time with your friends and keep yourself engaged in some activities, you will slowly forget her and find yourself as happy you were previously.
@docipain (135)
• Germany
25 Apr 09
She left you for money? That's really a bad manner. I mean she should love you because of the person you are and not of the money you have. Such people are poor and they are not worth that you are crying any tear for. Of course you loved her so it's only human you are trying to get over it. It's fine to drink a little bit but don't drink too much. It won't make you feel better the next morning. Though I am sure you are fine already..now after 4 weeks.
@Archie0 (5175)
25 Apr 09
I am feeling sorry for you dear. dont worry things will work out soon. welcome to mylot, i am sure you will have a real good time here.we all are here to help you. dont be upset, things happen people change like seasons. here many are there who are suffering from this problem welcome here once again.
@Hvaniday1 (550)
• Malaysia
25 Apr 09
Hi Elsaning, don't feel down. Do you know there are many out there waiting for you? No feel or no taste? Anyhow, don't feel sad, this is normal. Look for another target, let me tell you this very fast your life will back on track. Trust yourself, you'll be make a come back...lol. Cheer up man, life is short play hard don't keep those sad story in your heart because it is very small to contain those rubbish. Happy Mylotting.
@ajithlal (14618)
• India
25 Apr 09
I think she never loved you in the first place. I think there are lots of fishes in the pond. Remember we need people who love us sincerely not the people who love us just because we are beautiful or because we have money. I think it happened for good. Forget about her and carry on with your own life. Someday you will meet someone who will love you more than you love her. Remember that day to love her more and make her more happy.
• United States
8 Apr 09
Drinking over a woman is never a good thing to do. If she really cared for you it wouldn't matter how much money you have. Like they say there is always more fish in the sea get out there and find a better woman and if the other one shows back up in your life you could always give her a second chance.
@psyche49f (2504)
• Philippines
7 Apr 09
It seems that you just have to accept and let go...but I guess that's easier said than done. I know that really hurts...but when we go into a relationship, we have to be prepared to get hurt. I have been there, done that. Minus of course the drinking. I'll pray that you will soon wake up one day already moving on with your life and your experience with your gf will just be a thing of the past...
@Niah1976 (740)
• Paranaque, Philippines
7 Apr 09
Life is like that, sometimes we get hurt. But the most important thing is that it makes us stringer and better person. Money should not be the basis of a relationship. If your gf left you because you don't have money then I guess she don't deserve your love. Just pray and God will give what your heart desires. Good luck to you!!!