Is it possible to find love online?

Japan
April 5, 2009 1:21am CST
I'm not really one who'd expect such a thing happening online. Considering I'm not even looking. It's already difficult as it is in real time. But guess what? I have found it right there. No fireworks nor anything exagerating. Just that undeniable connection and that extremely comfortable feeling of being in each other's company. But just like any other relationship, it's a work in progress every day. And it's not always been easy but it's always been worthwhile. We've been together for more than 2 years now.
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@rmuxagirl (7549)
• United States
6 Apr 09
I think it is very possible to find love online. I am not the kind of person to go out to bars or clubs, so I have met people online as well as offline doing other things. I dated one guy i met online for 10 years and I just started a new relationship with someone I met online. I think when you talk for a little while online chatting helps the comfort level a little and then when you met you have a raporte already established.
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• China
5 Apr 09
everything is possible.even if i am not go through what you go through.but you know what,this world is crazy.everything could happen to us.wishing you happiness!
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@klaudine (3650)
• Indonesia
5 Apr 09
I found my love online. LOL. I didn't think that I would be the one who would do that because I didn't believe at virtual love. But then I met someone in one local forum and we talked about lots of things and of course, first we become friends. But maybe my case is very rare, most people are looking for partners in dating site or matchmaking sites, not forums like what I did. Well, I did it unintentionally though
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• Philippines
30 Apr 09
of course, that's too normal today..This is the world today having love online..this is the trends today...many people go online because they want to find their love online..some are gays some are lesbians some are straight..both finding loves online..it's just very easy to find relationship online
• United States
5 Apr 09
I say it's possible. I met my fiance online 5 years ago and I wasn't looking for a relationship at the time because I had been through a bad one 9 months before. I can't say I fell in love with him right away. After being with him for 2 weeks, we had built up such a connection that we hated spending any time apart. We both got a little freaked out and even tried to stop spending alot of time together but it didn't work. It was like something just kept pulling us together. I can't say the last years have been a walk in the park but I can say, I love him alot and can't imagine not having him in my life. He means the world to me.
@Q_Savvy (131)
• India
22 Apr 09
It's quite possible. Initially even I felt the idea to be extremely silly, but heck...something just happens...as you said, there's that connection, it just forms itself. There've been quite a few cases that I've heard of, people met online, fell in love and married in real life (not matrimonial sites). There are lots of problems with online love though, because you want the person to be close to you, but you know you can't right now, you want them to comfort you and you want to comfort them by giving a hug, but you know you can't yet. However, that doesn't mean that you'll never meet them in real, it's possible, quite probable if the love is true :)
@soulist (2985)
• United States
9 Apr 09
I think it is possible to find love online. The man I am seeing right now and I met online and we've been dating for about a month now. And I am falling for him. My ex I met online as well as I was with him for 10 months.
@leenie50 (3992)
• United States
7 Apr 09
Hi pia, Welcome to mylot. I don't know why people are so afraid of meeting people online. Why does it matter? You don't know anymore about the other person if you met them face to face. If you listen to what the other has to say and pay attention to their responses, you can learn a lot. You'll know more about them by the time you do meet face to face. If they are deceiving you in any way, you will know, if you are smart enough to ask the right questions. I met my husband on Match.Com 6 years ago yesterday. It was Love at first sight for both of us. Pay attention to all your senses. You'll know. leenie
@nushrat (13)
• United States
15 Apr 09
I believe Love is Love whether it's online or any other ways. I met my lover online and we've been together for almost one year. Love is such a great feeling. I am very happy with him and can do anything for his happiness. I know what we have is an unconditional Love!!!