How do I know she loves me?

@nuemann (332)
United States
April 6, 2009 2:10am CST
Am a dying man, a crying man , a lonely soul who thought he had found love when I met my present girlfriend. She offered me everything in dreams and wishes in a woman but she just used me and now she is so far of that I can't really imagine that she was once here in my heart. she has come back and acting repentant but she don't care like she used to and she don't seem bother when am not around her, she seems to be living in her own world, she enjoys the attention she gets cos of her beautiful.
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4 responses
@srganesh (6339)
• India
6 Apr 09
As you have said,'enjoying the attention of her beauty',she has now known the demand for her and it seems she is looking for a better partner.This type of girls will not remain loyal to any relationship.So,better forget her and wait for your real girl in life.Hope you will get one soon.Cheers!
@nuemann (332)
• United States
8 Apr 09
Its so hard you know to let go of that which you already feel was meant for you and that the fact that she now prefers the company of another makes it real hard to accept and just swallow. Am not sure she is going for a better person, she is just going to meet another person thats all. I know I was there for her and I did all I had to do to make sure she was comfortable and loved.
• India
6 Apr 09
Hi lotter , after reading all this i dont think that she loves you,so you betterstay away from her and try to live your life without her.
@nuemann (332)
• United States
8 Apr 09
Thank you very much for confirming my fears and I have always had it at the back of my mind that she really isn't mine. She was always calculating and my attempts to talk to her has always turned out to be something else . She would say am tending to be too demanding and this has put a lot of pressure on her as she has friends and other things to think about.
@sunita64 (6468)
• India
6 Apr 09
Whenever we lose something we usally see fault in others, just check that when she was with you, how was your behaviour towards her, sometimes distance comes in between the two when there is a communication gap, why don't you two sit down and talk the things out.
@nuemann (332)
• United States
8 Apr 09
YEAH!Well said most people will say that when you lose something that is when you measure the true value of the object. But in our case she changed from whom she used to be I now no longer feel that my love and arling is there somewhere waiting for me. I feel she has found some other spark and excitement that she now sees me as not very important. I do not intend to show her my true feelings but truly am worried about her non chalant attitude.
@larish (2263)
• Philippines
9 Apr 09
Just cherish the good memories you have with her. And forget her now, you can find someone better than her. Be thankful that you have known her real motive.