What will you do if he/she cheats on you?

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@grace24 (1050)
Philippines
April 6, 2009 7:59am CST
what will you do if you found out that your boyfriend/girlfriend has cheated on you?Cheating cause great impact in relationship. Trust will loss,love will be replaced by anger. What will you do?will you give him second chance?
8 responses
• Philippines
6 Apr 09
Everybody deserves a second chance so why not give him what he deserve? LOL. I have been cheated before. I don't easily give up on anything but if I feel that the relationship is not going anywhere...then it's time to end it up and move on.
@tarish (14)
• Philippines
6 Apr 09
Yes if he's really not that kind of person who just wants to play... If that person is happy on the other side, then it's time to let your partner go... than to force that person to be with you...
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@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
6 Apr 09
I hate to talk in advance. I haven't been in this situation and hopefully not ever...Trust is very significant in any relationship and when it is destroyed, it is hard to obtain peace between lovers or couples.... But, it has been said also that everyone deserves second chance,,,,so, I would say, it depends on the situation and the way people look on it...I may give second chance when I will notice that he was tempted or I have some fault on it!
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@Jezebella (1446)
• United States
6 Apr 09
If my b/f cheated on me I would kick his butt to the curb because I deserve someone who will not do something like that to me. I would be angry with him, and work on forgiving him, but he wouldn't get a second chance.
• India
6 Apr 09
I don't believe in giving second chance to anybody in any thing. IF your relationship is serious you are hurt. First I try to recover from this situation and after that if it is possible then I punish him as well.
• United States
6 Apr 09
I have experienced this before and its the worst feeling ever. You feel as if your heart has been torn out of you and you can't trust the person anymore as he or she hurt you tremendously. I was so angry and screaming i just didn't know what to do about it and all he could say to me is sorry and i didn't think that sorry was good enough at all. I am still with him but i have the worst trust problem ever as i don't really believe him ever and its hard. i always want to go with him whenever he goes out and sometimes he says its a guys night out and you can't come and i hate that so much.
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@Bethany1202 (3431)
• United States
6 Apr 09
I have been cheated on before in the past. This destroys all the trust and does bring senses of hurt and anger. I don't think I could ever again stay with anyone if I found out they cheated on me. It would mean the end of the relationship.
@syankee525 (6261)
• United States
6 Apr 09
i had this happen to me, it took along time for us to rebuild our relatshionship. and the trust