what did you get and lose after marriage

@ktosea (2025)
China
April 6, 2009 9:01pm CST
Yesterday my girlfriend asked me some questions about marriage.In fact , i don't know how to answer because i just think marriage is a far distance from me.I have no idea how life will be after marriage,Certainly we love each other I am sure we will marry to each other. but i think i just have not get ready for it now. What did you get and lose after marriage?Be frankly and say what you want have a nice day
3 responses
@coldmoon (1092)
• France
7 Apr 09
When you get marriage with a one you love, you'll lose -a little of freedom: it's hard to go out alone or with your friends without your spouse. You can't have meal and go to bed anytime you want. You can't flirt or be flirt by another -a part of your revenue ( in some case you get rather than you lose) -a bit of your attraction to the girls/guys around you. -a time to share the housework. However you'll get -a happy family with a person always supports you for most of things ( much more than you can imagine) -a legal and traditional chance to have your own babies. -a free 37┬░degreed blanket in your bed that you never have to wash by yourself.
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@ktosea (2025)
• China
7 Apr 09
thanks for your concrete comments,thank very interesting
@nympha687 (940)
• United States
7 Apr 09
I got a son and lost everything.
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@ktosea (2025)
• China
7 Apr 09
a son is the most valuable treasure to us humam beings.take care of him and live happily
@ketybhagat (4125)
• India
7 Apr 09
I got a son, a husband who has the ability to drive me mad, but a lovable one at that. I got companionship, caring and lot os fights too. I lost out on freedom to come and go as I please, to do as I please, to be answerable to him. I got two more mouths to feed as my husband has no job at the moment, and frankly Ive become irritable too. Men can drive you up the wall. All is hunky dory when you are dating or in the first flush of marriage. Then things get clearer. You see your spouse as he is. Marriage is like a sweet, if you eat it, you repent, if you dont, you repent. Thats life.
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