what did you get and lose after marriage

When you get marriage with a one you love, you'll lose -a little of freedom: it's hard to go out alone or with your friends without your spouse. You can't have meal and go to bed anytime you want. You can't flirt or be flirt by another -a part of your revenue ( in some case you get rather than you lose) -a bit of your attraction to the girls/guys around you. -a time to share the housework. However you'll get -a happy family with a person always supports you for most of things ( much more than you can imagine) -a legal and traditional chance to have your own babies. -a free 37°degreed blanket in your bed that you never have to wash by yourself.

I got a son and lost everything.

I got a son, a husband who has the ability to drive me mad, but a lovable one at that. I got companionship, caring and lot os fights too. I lost out on freedom to come and go as I please, to do as I please, to be answerable to him. I got two more mouths to feed as my husband has no job at the moment, and frankly Ive become irritable too. Men can drive you up the wall. All is hunky dory when you are dating or in the first flush of marriage. Then things get clearer. You see your spouse as he is. Marriage is like a sweet, if you eat it, you repent, if you dont, you repent. Thats life.