What do you do with your kids when school is on break?

@Effusive (156)
United States
April 6, 2009 10:31pm CST
That is the question that I would like to know the answer to. My kids just came off spring break and we really didn't get to do to much as we don't have a car. We went to the beach, bowling and that was about it. I feel really bad cause we normally do more things when school is out on a break. I'm just lucky that I have kids that understand how some things work in the world. The days that we had no car to use we just went outside and played together. So should I feel bad that we didn't get to go a lot of places or no? What do you think fellow Mylotters?
4 responses
• United States
8 Apr 09
I wouldn't feel bad, my family has been tight on money for the past year i've been off work. For spring break we went to my home town to visit with family and got the kids some time to run off the steam. Playing outside and just spending good times with your children is always enough to build life time memories. Feel great knowing you spent time with your children and didn't let them waste there break away sitting around the house watching movies and playing video games!
@Effusive (156)
• United States
8 Apr 09
Yeah I'm not with sitting inside watching TV and playing video games when it's a beautiful day outside. We did do the video games though on the day that it rained. I believe in outside play as it is good exercise and normally tires the boys out, not to mention the good times. I guess it's just me as I know that money is very tight as I have no hob so we have to be very selective of the things that we can do and no car on top of it. That doesn't make the situation any better. I guess it could be worse though. I am thankful that we were able to at least do some things and create memories. Thanks for your input.
@Dugsmom (279)
• United States
7 Apr 09
We don't go anywhere during Spring Break. We save up our money and take a nice trip during Summer. This Spring Break, we spent some time at the park. My son is 11 so the park is not fun for him anymore but he just got a skateboard so he spent his time learning how to control it. I took a nice picnic lunch and we did that for 3 days. We live on a hill so he can't skate here because the road is so steep and dangerous! I also took him over to the Book Store and he looked around for something to buy and then took him over to Video game store where we window shopped. I really don't think it bothers him that we stay home. He likes that...staying home and enjoying time away from school. You're are lucky have kids who understand.
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@Effusive (156)
• United States
7 Apr 09
Thanks for your input. I have to be creative with my children a lot as I am a single mother. We do all of these things that people have mentioned here in this discussion. I really am just looking for some other ideas. We also went to the park one day and we had a pretty good couple of hours. The problem is that we have lived here their whole life so we have pretty much done most of the stuff here. The issue was that we have no car so it to get to the places was the problem. My kids loved that they were not in school but we are the type of family that likes to do things outside. I have three bots and one girl so outside activities work best or something that uses a lot of energy. We also like to try to do different things as I would like to be able to give them as much diversity in their life as possible.
@Jae2619 (1483)
• United States
7 Apr 09
My son is on Spring Break from April 9th and doesn't go back to school until the 20th. Usually, we don't do much this time of the year because my husband only get's so much vacation and we hate using it so early in the year. We are only planning on taking our son to see a movie during his break. Doesn't sound too fun, but that's what we can offer for him right now. We have friends who live 3 hours away from us and their little girl was on spring break last week, so we met them half way at our state zoo, and spent the day with them so the kids could play, so that will be part of his spring break treats as well. My son's spring break also falls over Easter, so he will get to go to the Easter egg hunts and such, but those things are yearly and we always do those. I think you got to do alot more than more will be able to afford this year. Feel lucky, and just enjoy those days with the kids.
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@Effusive (156)
• United States
7 Apr 09
Thank you I just felt bad as we could not really afford to do to much. They did enjoy the stuff that we did this year though. I completely understand not wanting to use up all your husband's vacation time as there is still most of the year left. You guys can save it for something special. Hope your son enjoys the movie.
@popski (8)
• Philippines
7 Apr 09
Hi! Good thing your kids can understand your situation so you are already very lucky in that aspect. With my own kids, I usually send them off for a mini vacation with their grandparents for a few days to a week. When they get back, they usually have some new toys that keep them occupied and happy for a few more days before they get antsy again. Don't you have neighbors with kids about the same age as your kids? Usually, unstructured playtime with neighborhood kids are more than enough to combat boredom. My kids can play with neighborhood kids daily the whole summer and they are quite happy with it. Don't feel bad! A lot of moms out there are worse off than you.
@Effusive (156)
• United States
7 Apr 09
Thank you and yes we do have kids in the neighborhood that they can play with. After three days of that is when they started getting antsy. I also sent them to my grandparents as well and that held them for a couple of days. My grandparents have bikes, tire swing, and a pool table. Not to mention on demand cable and we just have regular cable. But thanks for the input I guess it is just a thing that mothers do when they feel that more has been provided but because of the things going on in the world a lot of things have to be sacrificed. Yes you are one hundred percent right I do thank God everyday that my children can understand the struggles in the world today and we have a open and honest relationship so they know that it is only me and I only do my best when it comes to them.