do you believe in a match made in heaven?

@maissj (111)
Philippines
April 7, 2009 12:02am CST
i'd like to believe that it exist. i have this friend, he's healthy and fun loving person, he's the life of our circle, he got married to our friend's younger sister, she too was okay, a little fragile but she's strong, she's a fighter. when they got engaged both their parents don't like the their soon to be son/daughter in law. but they still got married. four years after their wedding, they both started to get sick and their sickness spread so fast that it really consumed them, she was diagnosed with rheumatic heart, scoliosis, goiter and many more that i just can't recall, while he was sent home from Guam because he is diagnosed with a tumor in his lungs, and in 3 months time, it turned to cancer and in a year he's gone :(, he passed away a year after his wife died of complications. i think and i believe that maybe they are not meant to be together, (at least they are now together in heaven). or maybe the negativity of those who don't like them for each other just manifested and got them sick. what do you think?
5 responses
@larish (2193)
• Philippines
7 Apr 09
I think it is just a coincidence. Maybe their love for each other was meant to be this way.
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@maissj (111)
• Philippines
7 Apr 09
i'd like to think that too, but if it's meant to be that way, maybe they're not really meant to be? they're both in heaven now, and maybe right this very moment they're smiling down at me for reminiscing their love story, or maybe they're frowning because i don't think that they are really meant to be together, at least here on earth.... smile, mai
• United States
7 Apr 09
No, I do not believe in heaven so I have no belief in anything to do with it.
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@maissj (111)
• Philippines
7 Apr 09
huh? you're the first person i heard that admitted that don't believe in heaven... i'd like to ask you why, but that another discussion. anyway, if that's what you believe, it's okay, thanks for replying anyway... smile, mai
@kishuchi (71)
• India
7 Apr 09
I believe marriages r made in heave,my case is the same.The story that u have narrated is sad.But the positive part, I feel is that both left the world.None of them had to lead their life alone after their partner's demise. Both had a short life,came together,lived the remaining moments of live in each other's luv.
@maissj (111)
• Philippines
7 Apr 09
it's really sad, but at least as far as i knew, they loved each other very much and showed each other that love. and i'd like to think too that my love story is made in heaven and that my husband and i will stay in love with each other for all the days of our lives. smile, mai
• India
9 Apr 09
My best wishes for ur future.Think good and everything will be good.But remember a relation can be kept only if u want to keep it.
@yyygirl (13)
• China
7 Apr 09
i think it's only a mere coincidence
• India
7 Apr 09
I believe in a match or marriages are made in heaven because it happens to some of my friends too........where they were in college studies they never met before and not in the same studies even though they met all of suddenly become close each other now they got perfectly married ....they use to say this proverb when ever we go to visit their house .......i think its sure it happens for every one.....