did you ever hate your lover when break up?
April 7, 2009 3:26am CST
Hi guys,i start this discussion cause i am puzzle about my old lover then he said he hate me when we broke up.i am sure that i didn't do wrong thing to him just some reasons for us that we could't continue our relationship.he knew what i thought and i knew he loved me much.i had the strong feeling with him too,but i didn't want to be silly to love him and no result and i thought we won't go to marriage at the end.i was really sad when he said he hate me but we had to break up it was hard to change that result.any guys want to give me some advice ?thanks
7 Apr 09
Hello cindy. Love without the result of getting married doesn't make much sense to those who desire to get married as the final aim, but not to those who don't want to get married or just want to maintain the relationship of being lovers. Well, I am married with a good wife giving me a happy family. We have been together for more than ten years and have been loving each other to help maintain our common family. But before getting married to my wife, I had an ex-girlfriend, who made me heartbroken due to her leaving me for another man. To tell you the truth, I once loved her so much as she was my first love for about five years or so. I found myself hard to accept the fact that she was not sincere and loyal to me, but I had to tell myself that we were not the right people to each other. Painful as it was to me, I had no choice but to let go her and my love for her. Life goes on and on. I am glad that I have found my Miss Right in the end, my caring wife. Life is short. There is no reason for any of us to hate the other. Try to love those around you is the best policy because it makes us happy when we give and are given love. Yes? I wish you happy, my dear friend.
8 Apr 09
Hi william,i am so grad that you have loving wife.that is what you are!i understand you hurt from ex-girlfriend.yes,love is great but hurt each other so deeply sometimes.it is hard to say clearly who is right or wrong in relation cause we couldn't control our feeling so easily.i just hope i get more happiness and relax in heart.but he couldn't understand what i thought.Best wishes to you,friend.