Are you a leaper or a dragger?

@James72 (26790)
Australia
April 7, 2009 4:15am CST
Just in case anyone's wondering whether I've lost the plot YET again, I'm talking about getting up in the morning here! lol. Some people have this ability to leap out of bed when they wake up, all fired up, full of energy and enthusiasm. Then of course there's the draggers, who practically need a team of wild horses to pull them from the bed and set them on their feet to start the day. Me? I'm definitely a dragger! I'm one of those people that doesn't sleep very well most nights, so I get maybe 5 or 6 hours on average. When the alarm goes off, I struggle to get the motivation to get up. 15 minutes later, I'm perfectly fine and raring to go, but that initial period is a real challenge! So what category do YOU come under then. Are you one of these leapers, or are you a dragger like me?
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@leoliu39 (540)
• China
7 Apr 09
i am a leaper. i go to bed early and get up early, i am a early bird, and never need alarm clock.
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@James72 (26790)
• Australia
7 Apr 09
You are very lucky then! I'm amazed that the snooze button on my alarm clock hasn't eroded away yet when you consider how much I use it! I wish I could fall asleep earlier, but I've been trying for years and I just can't. It's like my body's always in a different time zone to my location or something! lol.
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@llsling (331)
• China
8 Apr 09
im a chinese guy, i dont know where u dragger guy are exactly from,but anyway,we`re in different time zone,now tha time is 3:22,im still here sitting by the computer,,,and can you imagine i gotta get up for work at early 8 morning,so what do you think which one i`d probally be
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@James72 (26790)
• Australia
8 Apr 09
Based on what you've just shared llsling, unless you're also hooked up to an adrenaline drip, you're a dragger for sure!
@jerrydzy (47)
• China
7 Apr 09
I had ever been a dragger like you for many years.It was very difficult for me to get up immediately when the clock ring.But now I have become a typical leaper.I think it suits me very much.I am more vigorous than I was and full of energy.haha.the feeling is pretty well.
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@James72 (26790)
• Australia
7 Apr 09
I can imagine that it would be a GREAT feeling! Unfortunately it's not a feeling that I seem to get the chance to experience though. Maybe one day I'll become a leaper too. lol.
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@liquorice (3887)
7 Apr 09
jerrydzy, I'm interested in what (if anything) changed you from being a dragger to being a leaper. How do you change from one to the other? I feel like I'm inherently a dragger - like it's part of my personality, but I'd love to be able to make that change! What's your secret? lol!
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@makingpots (11915)
• United States
7 Apr 09
Dragger! ... and grumbler. *she hangs her head in shame* Much like you in this reguard, actually. I don't sleep well at night, but after 15 minutes or so I'm awake and happy to be so. I battle insomnia and occassionally give into the dreaded 'sleep aid' just to get a good night's sleep. A few back-to-back nights of good sleep and I do wake refreshed, raring to go. Still not a leaper at those times. I sleep in a raised, four poster bed (that requires a step stool to get into) and leaping out of it before my first cup of java might be hazardous to my health.
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@James72 (26790)
• Australia
7 Apr 09
Ooooooh AND a grumbler, excellent! Maybe you should make yourself a pot big enough for your head so those around you in the morning don't have to listen to it! lol. I'm not someone that even manages to get a few back-to-back nights either unfortunately and I definitely won't take 'sleep aid' as you call it. I do like the sounds of your bed too! As long as I get around 6 hours, I get through the day just fine, even if I do struggle to wake up at first.
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@James72 (26790)
• Australia
7 Apr 09
I'm glad to hear that the pot's an unnecessary option then! I can appreciate that sleeping pills etc can be of benefit for severe cases etc, but the issue I have with them is that they don't actually put you into a deep R.E.M sleep, so large scale use will actually do more harm than good eventually. You taking them oinly occasionally is very wise. I much prefer the Hubby being around method for you though, I must admit! lol.
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@makingpots (11915)
• United States
7 Apr 09
The large pot would be unnessisary. It is a well choreographed dance of avoidance that the familia and I perform until midway through my first cup of joe or the end of my shower, which ever comes first. I avoided sleep aides for years. My doctor talked me into them and I now see the benefit. I'm very particular about taking them only when the hubs is around to care for our son if something should come up while I sleep. He was away for a full week recently and I averaged about 3 hours of sleep a night. Just having him back in the house was all the sleep aid I needed for several nights.
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@hiddenwing (3719)
• China
7 Apr 09
I guess you have already figured out that I was a very good student. You know what, this is called narcissistic. Haha, sorry about that. Well, I used to get up very early in the morning listenning the VOA news. As you know, English is my second foreign language. Anyway, I gotta find a way to learn it well. Then, being an early bird, that was how I and most other English learners dealed with it. If you visited my campus, you could find that there were English learners reading English everywhere. However, since my English is sort of Ok now, I think I need more sleep. It is just that it is not a big deal anymore for me to communicate with any native speaker. Notwithstanding, to be honest, my English accent is still kind of weird. For reasons,it is sort of American accent, sort of Chinese accent, sort of Japanese accent, sort of Korean accent. First, my university English teacher was an American. So, you know where my American accent came from. Hmmmm, I am a Chinese and the Chinese English accent is inbred. Also, when I was a small kid, I learned some "strange" English from my Japanese grandpa. Finally, in my freshman year, my best friend was a korean. Koreans really spoke awful English. We had to mix Chinese, English and Korean together when we talked with each other. There was a saying. One who keeps company with the wolf, will learn to howl Oh my gosh, this response was so chaotic. Hope it didn't confuse your mind so much.
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@James72 (26790)
• Australia
7 Apr 09
Narcissistic? You know what happened to Narcissus for that term to exist yes? Given all the people that have influenced your English learning, I'm not surprised that you have a weird accent! My own is kind of weird too actually. It's sort of half Australian and half British; and then you'll find a few other twangs thrown in because I've been living overseas for a few years now. Even my own family back home keep telling me that I speak differently now! Anyways, no I didn't get confused with your response at all, so off you go and HOWL and I'll see you again soon no doubt!
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@dawnald (85135)
• Shingle Springs, California
7 Apr 09
Did you ever see "The Great Race"? Remember the scene where Max says, "hey professor, rise and shine"? And the professor replies, "rise and shine? RISE and SHINE??? You rise. You shine." That's my favorite scene in the entire movie. Can you guess why? :-)
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@James72 (26790)
• Australia
7 Apr 09
I've seen this movie, yes! It was very funny. Mid 60's I think was when it was made? Jack Lemmon, Tony CUrtis..... I don't remember that exact scene you shared though to be honest. And to take a guess why you love this scene, it's either because you're a leaper, OR, you've always wanted to shine shoes for a living?
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@James72 (26790)
• Australia
7 Apr 09
Ahhhhh, so you hit me with one of those reversy questions with a twist! I really did think it was the shoe shining thing.....
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@dawnald (85135)
• Shingle Springs, California
7 Apr 09
1965 - Jack Lemmon, Natalie Wood, Tony Curtis... And it's my favorite scene because I am not, under any circumstances, a morning person!!!
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@savak03 (6684)
• United States
7 Apr 09
I am always awake anymore way before the alarm goes off. Then I just lay here and watch it till it does. Still I wouldn't consider myself a leaper exactly because I don't get right up. It's not my job to get these kids ready for school and I refuse to do it. I call there Momma and get her up to do it. When everyone is ready to go then I start my 'taxi' run that gets everybody off to where they need to be.
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@James72 (26790)
• Australia
7 Apr 09
Hahahahahaha, your spelling was perfectly fine, it was just me going off on one of my stupid tangents again is all..... There's no lepers where there's snow, savak! (Oh except for those wild cats - Snow Lepers)
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@James72 (26790)
• Australia
7 Apr 09
Jeez savak, I said LEAPER not "leper"! (I couldn't help myself with that one.....) I don't recall the last time I woke before my alarm went off? I think in my world that's just a myth. lol. I see you go with the tough love for the little 'uns and their Momma too. Best way for 'em to learn I reckon. I hope you keep that meter running when you do the taxi dash.
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@savak03 (6684)
• United States
7 Apr 09
I thought maybe I misspelled leaper but I didn't so now you have me totally confused. How did we get on the subject of lepers?
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@alokn99 (5717)
• India
7 Apr 09
Is there a third variety of those like having to be kicked all the way out of bed ? . I guess that puts me in the dragger category. The alarm is on, it rings, i shut it off and back to sleep in a wink. On most mornings , my dad then knocks on the door and asks " Dont you have to go to the office ? " and then it's Huh"- Isnt today a holiday ? It's not. One more shout from him and atleast my eyes are all open. It's probably because i sleep late. Just cannot get myself to sleep early.
@James72 (26790)
• Australia
7 Apr 09
We could embrace the Heinz mentality and come up with 57 varieties if you like! Thankfully I do eventually drag myself out of bed after a few snooze button wrestles, but there have been times in the past when my alarm either didn't go off or I didn't hear it and then I receive a phone call asking where I am! It's the absolute worst when this happens because I rush to get out the door and leave the house still half asleep. Thankfully this doesn't happen often! I'm a late sleeper too by the way, so it's no surprise at all that I'm like this in the morning.
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@alokn99 (5717)
• India
8 Apr 09
You sure seemed to have leaped out for this discussion James. It's the highest rated for today. Congrats.
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@James72 (26790)
• Australia
8 Apr 09
Thank you mate! Now if only I could leap out of bed in the morning too.....
@balasri (26537)
• India
7 Apr 09
I think that I am blessed James.I just fall asleep at 11pm sharp nowadays and gets up by 5,45 Am sharp for my morning walk.I just jump out of my bed looking forward to that morning stroll with my Ipod.
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@James72 (26790)
• Australia
7 Apr 09
You do appear to be very lucky in this regard, yes. The thought of arising at 5:45 AM is horrifying to me! lol. But I also don't fall asleep until around 2 AM most nights, so this would explain these feelings! I get up at 7 AM on most days and an hour or so later on the weekends. If I was able to fall asleep earlier, I'd be very happy, but I just don't seem to be able to.
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@makingpots (11915)
• United States
7 Apr 09
Oh, bala, my friend, I envy you. You ARE blessed!
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@James72 (26790)
• Australia
8 Apr 09
Me too! it would be wonderful to be able to have a sleeping/waking routine like this. It appears to be my destiny to NOT have one though!
@wildcat48 (779)
• United States
7 Apr 09
I quess you can call me a leaper and ready to go,as long as i get 3 hour sleep i am ok.I am a morning person ,love to watch the sun raise and set.
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@James72 (26790)
• Australia
7 Apr 09
Yes, 3 hours is very short and I only get around 6 myself also on average. But we're all different and if this is how your body works best, then so be it! They say the older we get, the less sleep we require too, so given the way I'm going, by the time I'm 50 I'll never sleep at all!
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@savak03 (6684)
• United States
7 Apr 09
Wow, only 3 hours? I thought my 6 was too few. Do you have a lot of energy to go with all those hours awake?
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@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
14 Apr 09
Hahaha.... I am out and out a dragger in capitals. I just cannot jump out of my bed even when I have to keep up an early appointment. My alarm keeps snoozing for 2-3 times before it actually force me out of my bed. I can drag on and on and on till forever. But since that's not feasible (I do reach office in time), I really struggle to open my eyes wide.
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@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
14 Apr 09
That makes two of us James. And would be amazed to find out me working with full zeal after an hour or so of the dragging episode! A total mismatch! I just cannot get out of the hangover of sleep....
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@James72 (26790)
• Australia
14 Apr 09
You end up with full zeal? Actually I do too eventually. (Usually, if I wake up on a Sunday morning, zeal kicks in by the following Saturday. It may not be FULL zeal, but it's there.)
@James72 (26790)
• Australia
14 Apr 09
In capitals? I think I may have to join you on this one mimpi 'cos I'm pretty much the same! My snooze button and I have a love/hate relationship and we've had it for years! lol. I get to work on time though and just struggle to get up each day. If I could fall asleep earlier I'm sure this would improve, but I can't seem to make this happen. Oh well, dragger I am then!
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
8 Apr 09
No doubt about it...I'm a dragger. I force myself up and I need coffee...2 at least & then force myself to that shower. Then I'm usually awake enough to keep going. The key for me is to NOT sit down after that shower....get dressed & do my hair & then I run out and grab a iced Dunkins coffee. Takes about an hour tops and then I'm good for hours and hours....actually...hyper. I work nites and so get about the same amount of sleep as you do. I insist on getting up early tho....don't want to waste my days sleeping....plenty of time for that when I die. the worst thing I do is on occasion, I get dumb and think that even tho I shut the alarm off, I can shut my eyes for just 5 more mins. That NEVER works! I'll wake up 3 hours later...angry at myself.
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@James72 (26790)
• Australia
8 Apr 09
I need the coffee and shower too otherwise I just don't feel human. The WORST is when my alarm doesn't go off and I find myself rushing out the dorr without having the chance for either. Thankfully this happens rarely because I end up feeling terrible all day. I've been sucked in by that "5 more minutes" scenario too!
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@sid556 (30960)
• United States
8 Apr 09
Oh...I've done that rush out the door without either too. Always do manage to brush the teeth and gargle no matter what tho!! Still...makes for a bad start to the day for sure. Doesn't happen often here either....thank goodness!
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@liquorice (3887)
7 Apr 09
Oh I'm like you, definitely a dragger. And a life-long one at that! I never seem to get enough sleep and find it so hard to get up and be enthusiastic about the day until I've had a shower and some kind of tea. My mum had such a job getting me out of bed to go to school when I was younger. She used to tell me to get up, but I kept falling asleep and dreaming that I'd got up and dressed. Only to be woken up again a few minutes later... I'd love to be one of the people who jump out of bed, and ideally get straight out of the house, to make the most of the whole day!
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@James72 (26790)
• Australia
7 Apr 09
Welcome, fellow dragger! I've been this way for as long as I can remember too. It's a good thing that I'm able to force myself each day, otherwise I'd be in a world of trouble. It's not like I leave everything to the last minute and then rush either, because I do get up at least an hour or so before I have to leave for work. It's just the struggle to become alert and actually feel good about getting out of bed in the first place that I wish I could change! I'm yet to dream about being up and ready though! lol.
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@James72 (26790)
• Australia
7 Apr 09
If "organized dragging" was an Olympic event, I'd be a medallist for sure! That particular dream DOES sound frustrating, so I'm glad I don't have it.
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@liquorice (3887)
7 Apr 09
It sounds as if you're an organised dragger! You're lucky you don't have that dream, it's one of the most frustrating dreams ever, lol!
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@lynnemg (4529)
• United States
8 Apr 09
It takes a lot to get me out of bed in the morning. I have my alarm set for an hour before I have to get up so I can comfortably hit the snooze button several times each morning. My husband is the opposite. When his alarm goes off, he is up, no questions asked. If he isn't, he is sick. At least I know that even if I want to over-sleep, I won't because he will make sure I am up.
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@James72 (26790)
• Australia
8 Apr 09
I'm pretty much the same, in terms of it taking a lot to get out of bed, but I don't set the alarm an hour prior to my actual get-up time. I maybe set it for 20 minutes before and then give the snooze button a daily workout! lol. And my Wife is usually just like your Husband and gets straight up. She doesn't leap as such, but she's up! Thank God she's not a leaper in the truest sense because this can be quite frightening for us draggers!
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@Fahrad (22)
• Brazil
8 Apr 09
Everyone who sleep less then 5 hour are a dragger, include myself. I Like to stand up before 6:00 and see the light of morning, but it is barely impossible. The lights of city do not alow me to fall sleep before 11:00 pm. Most of time I go to my bed after 2:00 Maybe a sleep mask and a heard-slap may help , but i never try ^^
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@James72 (26790)
• Australia
8 Apr 09
Welcome to mylot Fahrad! I usually average around 5 - 6 hours of sleep a night myself, so this explains my dragger status for sure. I do have a sleep mask too, but it really doesn't seem to make much difference to anything for me. Light isn't an issue in my room either, so I guess I have no real need for it. I never considered a slap though! lol. Maybe I'll try that one day.....
@xParanoiax (6987)
• United States
8 Apr 09
Neither. I usually always wake up and calmly sit up and scoot out of bed. I'm rarely bursting with energy at the start of a day, but lately I have felt rather...shall we say...awesome? lmao. And even when I feel tired, it's rare for me to drag myself out of bed. I don't like sleep. If it weren't for the fact that it's vital to my body's repairative process...I wouldn't do it. I've always considered sleep an extreme waste of time. So much to do, experience, learn about...in this world, and I waste my time eight or so hours a night doing nothing but allow my subconcious (who is a jerk, I tell you!) to play. I'm an insomniac, too. Partially because of that reason, but also because I've a very restless mind (ergo, the whole 'my subconcious is a jerk!')...but lately I've been getting better sleep because I've responsibilities that require me to be up without fail and without struggling against exhaustion.
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@James72 (26790)
• Australia
8 Apr 09
Actually I'm not a huge fan of sleep either. Napping during the day on the weekends for example is something that I just won't do because apart from feeling like crap when I do this, I also don't wish to lose any of my day! I've often wondered how much I could do and learn if I never had to sleep. But yes, it's a necessary evil I supppose and all I wish is that I could wake up some mornings and actually feel fantastic about it immediately rather than have to take a while to warm up.
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@novataylor (6570)
• United States
8 Apr 09
For the most part, I'm more of a leaper than a dragger, James. I've been told that I'm just entirely too cheerful in the mornings and more than once. Actually, I've been told that I'm entirely too cheerful ANY time of day. There are folks out there that react very strongly to that type of personality and often, it seems, will react to it quite negatively, even dismissively. But if they see more of me, they usually end up liking me. I guess that leaping can be quite startling, dontcha think? But once a leaper, always a leaper. But not a graceful leaper, James. I think I'm more of a Lucille Ball leaper. In any case, it's great to talk at ya, darlin. Thanks for the discussion!!!!
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@James72 (26790)
• Australia
8 Apr 09
Heya Nova. I definitely would have said you were aleaper if someone were to aks me which one I thought you'd be! lol. Maybe there's more benefit to all that shimmying than I realized? For someone that's a dragger, being around a leaper can be quiter a shock at times, believe me! lol. Just work on that grace aspect of it all and it's nice to hear from you.
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@jesssp (2712)
• Canada
7 Apr 09
Dragger, definitely. I sleep until the last possible second on weekday mornings and actually have my routine timed right down to the second so I can still get to work on time. I even have my clock set ahead so I can 'trick' myself into getting up earlier! (It doesn't work)
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@James72 (26790)
• Australia
7 Apr 09
It seems we have more draggers than leapers so far! Funnily enough, I set my clocks forward too. lol. Only 10 minutes or so, but every minute counts right? (and no, it doesn't work at all! hahahahaha)
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• United States
8 Apr 09
I suppose in this case I'm a leaper. I have 2 1/2 year old and an almost 7 month old. I'm up with the baby in the night for diaper changes and bottles, then up early in the morning when they both are ready to get up. I don't have a choice but to be a leaper. Though, there are times I truly wish I could be a dragger. I mean, just once, would it be nice to stay curled up in bed lol. Though, even in my younger days I never stayed in bed. I always was up and at 'em. I love to be active, so I generally am up doing something. It's funny because I'm a night owl as well, but manage to get up each morning early-always have been. However, I should qualify it all by saying I definately need my tea or coffee in the morning. Namaste-Anora
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@James72 (26790)
• Australia
8 Apr 09
It cetainly helps to be a leaper when there are small children involved! But as you've shared, it becomes a forced role a lot of the time. Your status is quite similar to mine in the sense that I too am a night owl, but manage to get moving every morning regardless. I've gotta have that coffee in the morning too otherwise I'm zombified for quite some time. lol. Let's hope you get to be a dragger more when your children get a little older.
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@bubbletush (1332)
• Philippines
8 Apr 09
DRAGGER!!! I could not sleep early at night, I usually doze off around two or three in the morning and so it is very difficult for me to wake up early or even have myself get out of bed.
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@James72 (26790)
• Australia
8 Apr 09
I usually fall asleep close to 2 myself and have no choice but to get up at 7 during the working week. It really is a struggle most mornings, but at least I get to grab a couple of extra hours on the weekends!
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@snow_one (202)
• United States
8 Apr 09
i would say that i am a leaper. i like to do things all at once if that is what it means. i do not like to drag things out, all that does for me is make it harder to do things. i rather just get what i am doing done as soon as possible then wait over time to do them.
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@James72 (26790)
• Australia
8 Apr 09
When I say "leaper" I'm talking about how we get out of bed in the morning! I'm a dragger because I have to drag myself out of bed, yet these lucky leapers are all full of energy every morning, so of course LEAP out of bed to face the day! I'd love to be a leaper, but this status has evaded me for years unfortunately. Your attitude towards not dragging things out is a good one to have though!
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