married life or being single?

@jcbelle (152)
Philippines
April 8, 2009 3:27am CST
Which do you prefer, being married or being single? I just got married last 2008. I can say that, things are different now when I was still single. I have big responsibilities with my hubby and child. Before, I don't do budgeting but now I am struggling on it. :) I used to hang out with friends during night time, now I don't. But despite all of the adjustments I am encountering, I still prefer to get married. Because when I was still single, I used to have almost everything but then I feel empty. Now, I feel the fulfillment of being a WOMAN.
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@flyrock (58)
• China
9 Apr 09
Almost all of us prefer marriage.for what we are come from ,come from a family.it's human's nature to find another part of life,and get married.Just like every coin has two side ,marriage has advantage and disadvantage .When you meet your true love and get married,you'll find you are a happy person always.
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@rainwater (352)
• China
9 Apr 09
I prefer being single,as it has too many time to play,do not think about other things.But if I find a correct man,may be I will married.Best wishes.
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@reds08 (305)
• Indonesia
8 Apr 09
I will choose being married, it must be so beautiful when we have happy family with childs. Our life will be more restricted than being single, we will also have big responsibility taking care of family and learn to share with our partner. But, thats the beautiful part.
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@wxo200345 (101)
• China
9 Apr 09
i plan to get marriage with my girlfriend within 3 years.just one year ago , i still persisted in being single, but now my view has been changed ,there were not many reasons,just i suddenly found i was already 26 years old, for this ages in my home town ,usually the child has learnt to run. so i told myself it is time for get marriage. in every stage of our life, we have different roles to act. now it turns to me to take on my role of husband.
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@larish (2191)
• Philippines
9 Apr 09
I agree with you. having my own family gives more meaning to my life as well. It gives me a sense that i have to consider my family for every decision that I make.
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• Philippines
8 Apr 09
I love to be married to a guy who is responsible, who love me as much as i love him, good provider, good husband as well as good father but if the guy is like my ex husband, then i better stay single forever. I am happy when i see an old married couple, still kissing, holding hands and sharing everything. But every time that i think about my married life and how i enjoy my single life, i sometimes said to myself, i don't want to be married again.
• Philippines
9 Apr 09
wow you are so lucky that you got married. I also want to be married someday.. I actually want to get married by the age of 27. Well that's what I want but I don't know If I would be ready....I would prefer being married than being single... but I am a bit scared of getting married... what if you got married to a wrong guy? you know...?like what if his true colors came out and you can't handle it?but then you have kids with him..ooohhh...that's scary... I think this is one reason why couples break.... :(
@leoliu39 (540)
• China
9 Apr 09
i prefer single!marriage is duty to the society, now that the population is heavey, i suggested one should stay single and also can be very happy!
• Philippines
9 Apr 09
yah!!!right,Be happy and free
• China
8 Apr 09
i prefer being married. that must be a happiness to be with your lover and have a cute child. that's a beautiful life.
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• Philippines
9 Apr 09
being single is enjoyable and being married is complicated but i prefer to be married coz i already found my special someone whom i love most.
@irgiku (3)
• Indonesia
9 Apr 09
so great that mother and become a role models for your children
• Philippines
9 Apr 09
She should be coz we learn our first value to them ,they are our first teaher
@maiann (29)
• Philippines
9 Apr 09
I think that would really depend on your calling ..... I am now married and i could say happily married.... when i was still single i always used to think that why is it that I still dont have any boyfriend when almost all of my friends have one after our college day.... it was my late 20's that i met my husband and he was my first and last boyfriend before we tie a knot.... I knew all along that I am destined to get married because my concentration is my husband, then when I gave birth to our daughter, its my husband & daughter now ...i never regret the first day and until now of serving my husband and daughter rather than go out with friends...
• India
9 Apr 09
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@jheLaichie (4438)
• Philippines
24 May 09
its nice to be single but we can't be single for the rest of our lives, right? i still prefer to be married to the person and to the man i love so dearly. every girls dreams and a fantasy hope to be reality soon. specially if you could conceive the most wonderful thing that may happen to both of you, your child.
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
9 Apr 09
sure it depends on the situation of your married and your single life. if i am married and have troubles, etc i would rather be single but if i am single and have a partner and i am sure he will be a good person and husband to me.. then of course i would like to have a family of my own.
• Lubbock, Texas
9 Apr 09
Congratulations on your fulfilling married life. Yes, if you have a good marriage, caring spouse. . .all the good things in life marriage is preferable. Sometimes a marriage doesn't provide those things and life is miserable. Then it's better to be single and be responsible only for yourself.
@lynnemg (4529)
• United States
9 Apr 09
I prefer the married life to my old single life. I finally feel like my life is heading in the right direction and I have a solid future to plan for. When I was single, I was still a responsible person and a homebody. I have always felt that my place is at home with my kids when I am not working. The difference for me now is that I feel like my family is complete and I am now able to move forward with my goals and dreams.
@qinqinoen (127)
• China
9 Apr 09
I think it is good to be married.Althouth sometimes it is very tired to do so much houswork and take care of child it is a beautiful life.If I am single i will feel lonely and empty.It is a pity not to be married.
• India
9 Apr 09
both kind of lifes has equal benefits and consequences. marriage is responsibility,in single u don't have... marriage is fulfillment of ur family,but single u can never be a family, single u can enjoy with friends but in married life u cant 100 of other differences are there,,so no comparision