Would you share your stress with your love ones?

United States
April 8, 2009 9:07pm CST
Many of us might have a lot of stresses from work, or from other sources. When you have stress, would you share it with your love ones? The person you love, which I meant your wife, your girlfriend, or your parents? Or you rather keep it to yourself, because you don't want them to worry?
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@reds08 (305)
• Indonesia
9 Apr 09
As human being we always face problems in our life. When i face a really big problem that i can't handle it by myself and makes me really down, i tend to share it with my beloved ones. But when i feel that i can't hold it myself, i prefer to keep it alone as secret. I don't want to make them worry and sad.
@Mithoo (255)
• Pakistan
9 Apr 09
Yes, sure! I used to discuss it with only my friends. Not with my family. Because i do not want to give stress to my family. Because they are more concerned about us. And it is only the friends who helps us in releasing our tension. With friends, we can share anything. But in family, we usually come up with something hidden.
@dodo19 (47038)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
9 Apr 09
When I'm under a lot of stress, and such, I usually talk to my fiance about it. It certainly helps me a lot to talk to him about things. He's the first person I go for help and advice. That's mainly because he's the easiest and closest person that I can talk to. We're so close that it's easy to talk to him. I have nothing to hide from him.
• Lubbock, Texas
9 Apr 09
My son and daughter-in-law worked out a system for dealing with stress at work. They agreed that each of them had 15 minutes to express everything bad that happened at work that day and then the rest of the evening work was not to be talked about. Since it took them 30 minutes to get home from their work places and they rode together, by the time they got home "stress" had been discussed and put aside for the day. It didn't relieve the stress or make things at work any different, but each of them knew what the other one was dealing with so it led to better understanding each other. It seems gracious or noble to not worry loved ones with problems at work, but they may feel that you are shutting them out and that could lead to stress at home too.
@ktosea (2025)
• China
9 Apr 09
yeah,I think so but sometimes I will face it my own just for not let her worry a lot.to my parents I'd rather let them know my good news rather than some stressful news