Will you still lend your hands to help your ex when they need it?

United States
April 8, 2009 9:14pm CST
If your ex was the one who broke up with you, and one day, he or she might need your help. Will you still want to help your ex? To bail him or her out of trouble? Because you might think that he or she was one who broke up with you, you shouldn't be too nice to him/her in return. Or you might just tell him/her, "sorry, my hands are tight at the moment, I couldn't offer you any help."? They should understand what you are saying.
2 responses
@mizstress (719)
• Philippines
14 Apr 09
i wont. i really want to end my communication with him in respect with my boyfriend. and i had enough of saving my ex from his trouble even before we broke up. i dont want to be in his world.. reading the above paragraph makes me think that im mean/bad to my ex. but maybe thats the truth.. and i dont want to have issues with my boyfriend by helping my ex with his problem. anyway its his problem not mine anymore. happy mylotting!
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
9 Apr 09
i will not even communicate with an ex anymore.. so i guess he will not have any chance to talk to me and to seek for my help in any form at all. so i guess the answer from me is no when it comes to this.