difficulties in life .....

So far when I have explained something to my partner, he alwasy listened and adviced me on what step I should take. He would share his opinions on me and make me feel comforted. There is no need for me to tell him what I expect from him because he always cared and did the best for me. I have confidence on him

So far, when i told my partner about some difficulties i faced in my life, he always tried to solve my problems and gave me some advices. I feel so thankful have a partner like him. If he could not solve my problem, he would just being a good listener and gave me motivations to be strong. He said to me that he would always support me in every decission i made. It is more than i can't expect..:)

We have talked about all of these things. Since I was so sick with that medicine, I ended up telling him everything that was bothering me. Poor guy! I could not help it. And know that I don't take the medicine anymore and my head is clear. I really don't understand why I was so sad about my passed. It is passed and gone, time to move on. Can't change the passed, but I sure can make a better future. My BF could not help me. But he tried to listen. Sometimes he even told me to stop talking! That is when I realized I was talking non sense. I am happy I can think clear and not dwell on the pass so much. My BF has been very patient with me. I have with his problems too. Take care, see you later.

Some way or another, I can't find a way to respond to your discussion today. I hope that someday you will start a discussion which will not include my partner becaue I am single this time.

At the moment I am single so this I can't answer at this time. In the past I did try, it was the listening part that became problems with the other half, they usually only heard what they chose to hear, then tried to solve it instead of discussing the possibilities together.

Depending on the subject yes I talk to my partner about them.. There are sometimes that I either feel uncomfortable talking about my feelings about one thing or another.. and there are other times when I feel like I am talking about something important and HE CHANGES THE SUBJECT ON ME And then when I try to go back to the subject, he yet again CHANGES THE SUBJECT... Then he wonders why I go QUIET and or AM QUICK TO HANG UP THE PHONE!!! or WALK WAY PISSED OFF I do not like being IGNORED!! Granted I may have some of the same complains over and over again.. which can be boring I understand that.. but the reason the subject comes up again is because of the fact it is UNRESOLVED IN MY MIND!!! And it is not like he never talks about the same thing over and over.. but I will listen and comment to him.. try to help resolve the problem.. but most of the time it is some of his stories from the past that he tells me over and over.. I just listen.. I understand that he does not have very many people to talk to when he is out on the road... WHAT IS WRONG WITH HIM GIVING ME THE SAME RESPECT?!?!?!Yes there are other situations that come up and we talk about them, and usually solve them right away.. I just wish he would listen more when I am talking and keep quiet until I am done.. I do not like EXPRESSING MY FRUSTRATIONS OR HURTS in the first place.. And it takes a lot for me to build up courage to say anything at all.. It is not because I am scared that he would hurt me... NO that is not the case at all.. It is the fear of him not hearing what I am saying for what it is... And understanding that this is the way I FEEL...

till date whenever i have shared my difficulties with the person i love what i have got is a mixed reaction.....sometimes the person tries to solve them and sometimes the person just gets upset because of the helplessness the person feels.so i am not sure what to call it.its basically a mixed reaction.....