do you that having a gf / bf is something which make you happy ?
April 10, 2009 7:44am CST
hi for all !! i was searching for some interests of mine where i can make a discussion , so i chose this interest , and i want to ask you a question that is complicated as i think . firstly most of boys or girls choose to have a gf / bf for the simple reason that they feel in love with her / him and she / he wants to be with someone who can understand her / him . but do you think that having a bf / gf is something which make you happy ? i look forward for your responses ... good luck and have a nice day to you.
26 Apr 09
hi shalk_man, For me, I can be still happy with no boyfriend at all. I have my family and friends that I can say is true to me.They are always there to cheer me up whenever I feel blue.However, since that man, which is eventually my boyfriend now, came into my life, I can say that my life gets happier.He is a very wonderful man.He is the one who always complete my days.He can make me smile in an instant. Although, he is so far from from me, it doesn't became a hindrance for me to be happy with him.There is no boring moments with him. Whenever we chat online, topics are endless for us.There is not a day that he not tell me how he loves me and how I make him happy.Although, there are also times that I am sad with him,still I can say that there are more days that I am happy rather than sad with him. I am so lucky with him. I thank God every time I will remember him because my life wouldn't be this great if he hadn't came in my life.He makes my life meaningful and colorful.He is an angel in disguise for me. He is not only my boyfriend but my best friend as well.And I can say that I cannot ask for more.God is so good giving him to me.
7 Oct 09
hi annierose , i got your point and you're right , we can be happy even without a bf/gf since we have our families , and as you've said your life can be changed to something better with a person who loves you and respects you , with whom you can share the best and the worst and with whom you can feel calm and comfortable and feel free so as to say to him all things you have and to listen to him . i think you've everything with your bf and you feel so happy with him , i wish you good and happy life . goodbye ...
12 Apr 09
Nice discussion and very good point you have their. I think that most of people when they get a gf/bf they feel themselves reaching some kind of emotional level which makes them ,not really happy, but like if they were happy .If we get into this relation between the two sexes , we can easily figure out lots of problems which are provided from it and which can ruin the life of both parts (...). Any way ,As far as I'm concerned, I beleive that this kind of friendship could be useful if it is built on trust and confidence , not on love. That's an opinion of millions of opinions and each one of us has the right the express what he sees and lives . " Deference makes civilizations "
12 Apr 09
hi cossacks !! really you have a nice and good point of vue, I am interested in your answer, because realy we need relations that are built on trust and confidence and after we can talk about love . thank you and have a nice day to you .
24 Apr 09
Personally for me, at the moment I do not want a boyfriend. I am not someone who dreams of finding "Mr Right" I am rather persimistic when it comes to love and relationships and the thoughts of being in one does not appeal to me. This may of course change. I may meet someone who makes me feel different but I certianly do not feel lonely or feel that I am missing out on anything at the moment.
22 Apr 09
My bf likes to make me happy. He likes to cook for me, giving me a massage and make me laugh by shaking his butt infront of me. I like the way he looks at me, the way he holds my hands, his smile, his adventurous spirit and his moral support of for my other dreams that I want to fulfill in life.